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6 Best Dating Sites for Over 40 Singles

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Let’s be honest, when you’re dating after 40, you already know how to navigate a lot of the ups and downs of the dating scene. But the rising popularity of dating apps and online dating sites, means that a lot of over 40 singles are turning to new technologies to find a date, many for the first time.

Knowing which dating site or app works for you, can be a big part of online dating. When your time and patience is more precious than ever, you need a dating site that’s aligned with your mindset and relationship goals. To help you out, we put together six of the best dating sites for over 40 singles.

Elite Singles
Mature and exclusive, Elite Singles welcomes a select pool of sophisticated singles. To uphold high standards, the site requires applicants to verify their educational background. Because of this, 82% of the site’s members hold either a bachelor’s, master’s, or doctorate degree. Snobby perhaps? A bit. But if a formal education is something that’s important to you, it may be a good site for you.

As a veteran dating site, Match is a timeless place to find love. Serving millions of singles, their database is globally massive—good news for choosy people. The site’s main objective is creating lifetime partnerships, so for marriage-minded people over 40, Match may be the right fit.

Match keeps your options varied with new faces featured in your Daily Matches. If you’re not as eager to subscribe, and want to test the experience, sign up for the free trial period.

Though it’s usually a dating app for somewhat younger daters, Bumble caters to daters who are casually looking and those who are more serious. The dating beehive operates through the traditional swiping feature to sort through profiles: swipe left for no and right for yes. However, Bumble comes with a unique difference—women must send the first message.

This rule increases the chances of making a real connection because the ladies are responsible for making the first move. Once the woman starts a conversation, the recipient has 24 hours to reply. Otherwise, the match disappears, and that’s how Bumble creates a sense of urgency.

For people seeking a real connections, these rules might be great; yet for those who dislike constraints, you may need to buzz for love elsewhere.

(Full disclosure: Zoosk owns and opperates The Date Mix.)
Zoosk is home to millions of users over 40 and is most popular among daters ages 35 and up. Safe and friendly, the Zoosk community focuses on tasteful flirtation and meaningful matchmaking.

If you prefer to browse profiles without a subscription, you can start a free account. You’ll notice that unlike a lot of other dating sites, Zoosk doesn’t ask you to fill out a long questionnaire. Instead, Zoosk uses Behavioural Matchmaking technology to get an idea of the type of people you like.

This system monitors your search and messaging patterns in real time, constantly gathering information about your preferences. The app uses this data to update your matching queue with new profiles. So even if you think you know your ideal type, Zoosk has a different way of leading you to someone you might have overlooked.

eHarmony is a classic dating site that’s popular with many over 40 singles. Helping over 33 million registered members, eHarmony focuses on creating long-term partnerships.

Daters are matched with each other based on a long questionnaire they submit while creating their profile. And the success rate is respectable,  5% of all marriages in the U.S. come from eHarmony. With these stats, it’s no secret that eHarmony is for marriage-seekers.

Christian Mingle
Searching for a fellow believer? Christian Mingle is the leading dating site for single Christians over 40. Different from other religion-centered dating sites, this platform unites people from all levels of dedication to faith.

Christian Mingle knows the importance of religion in a relationship. Without this binding force, there’s a strong possibility of clashing of beliefs and priorities. To prevent these issues, Christian Mingle encourages detailed profiles and offers a variety of personalization features to help members with a similar commitment to faith. The site also offers unique communication tools to promote deeper discussions while chatting online.

There’s a whole universe of people out there to meet, and a variety of sites to meet them. Don’t feel like you have to choose just one. Check a few out, see what you like best, and find out what works for you.

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