{"id":14004,"date":"2016-12-28T01:00:20","date_gmt":"2016-12-28T09:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=14004"},"modified":"2021-12-08T02:51:37","modified_gmt":"2021-12-08T10:51:37","slug":"how-to-make-girl-feel-special","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-advice-men\/how-to-make-girl-feel-special\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Make a Girl Feel Special"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Did you know, that doing something as simple as sending an unsolicited \u201cI’m thinking about you\u201d text to a woman can make her feel like the most cherished and valuable person in your life? It’s true. Studies<\/a> have even shown that reminiscing about happy experiences together can make a woman feel special and make the both of you feel closer. Want to know even more small tricks about how to make a girl feel special? As it turns out, it doesn\u2019t take much to make her feel cared for and cherished.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How to Make a Girl Feel Special and Loved<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Be physically and\u00a0emotionally present.
<\/strong>When together, don\u2019t look off in the distance or daydreaming about Sunday night football. \u201cFace and look at her\u2014with interest\u2014when she starts talking,\u201d advises counselor, Karleen Andresen<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. <\/strong>Send unsolicited texts.
\n<\/strong>Unsolicited, meaning genuine and not asked for. \u201cA text that says, I love you, or if you\u2019re not at that stage yet, thinking of you, speaks volumes,\u201d says psychiatrist, Dr. Dion Metzger.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Giving small, yet meaningful, gifts.
\n<\/strong> \u201cGet her something you noticed she liked without her mentioning it,\u201d says Metzger. She loves the smell of lavender, so bring home some lavender sprigs one day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Create new experiences together.
\n\u201c<\/strong>Arranging classes to foster a passion of hers, a cooking course for example, shows that you know what\u2019s important to her and that you’re supportive,\u201d says relationship expert, Rori Sassoon<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Do some of her duties.
\n<\/strong>\u201cMake her feel appreciated and do some of the house work that she may usually do,\u201d says Vera Vance<\/a>, a relationship expert and writer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Ask what she likes.
\n<\/strong>Since you can’t read her mind, it\u2019s fine to ask her what would make her feel special, says relationship therapist, John Sullivan<\/a>. \u201cThe key is then to do one or two a day whether you feel like it or not.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Give her an unexpected embrace.<\/strong>
\n\u201cEspecially when she’s tense. This brings your strength to the tension and allows her to relax from it,\u201d says Andersen. Or, just try to surprise her with a hug from behind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Sit next to her.
<\/strong>If you really want to know how to make a girl feel special, body language<\/a> is everything. When at a restaurant, sit next to her instead of across from her.\u00a0 \u201cIf you’re always near her or sitting towards her it subconsciously makes her feel wanted and protected,\u201d says Vance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Compliment her on a regular basis.
<\/strong>Too many people wait to compliment people<\/a> like it’s a special occasion, says matchmaker and dating expert, Stef Safran. \u201cCompliments are free and make people feel special!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Be old fashioned.
\n<\/strong>Cheryl Detwiler<\/a>, <\/em>a life coach and relationship counselor, says of her husband and business partner. \u201cOpening doors for her shows he\u2019s old fashioned and women love the effort.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Ask for her opinion on decisions.
\n<\/strong>\u201cWhether it’s big or small; ask her what she thinks of your place, or what you should get for your mother for Christmas. When someone feels included in your life and decisions it can make a woman feel like she is a special part of your life,\u201d says Safran.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Tell her she\u2019s the best you\u2019ve ever had.
\n<\/strong>\u201cWoman do not feel special if men bring up stories about other women in promiscuous situations from their past. Make her feel like she is the best you\u2019ve ever had and bring the sexual memories to life that you two created,\u201d says Vance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Be romantic by planning special time together.
\n\u201c<\/strong>Simple gestures like a romantic dinner with all of the trimmings; a dress to wear, flowers, etc. can make a woman feel like a princess\u201d says Safran.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Compliment her in public.
\n<\/strong>Do it when you\u2019re with friends, family, and business associates, says Detwiler. \u201cIt makes her feel appreciated and special.\u201d Not to mention, shows you\u2019re proud to be with her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. Tell her you appreciate her.
<\/strong>\u201cNever let vulnerability keep you from loving someone to the fullest of your ability,\u201d says Vance. In the end, the girl you’re with\u00a0will feel special when you tell her you appreciate her, want her, and need her company and advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Learning how to make a girl feel special doesn’t need to be an arduous journey. Simply use a little empathy, and treat her kindly!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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