{"id":14087,"date":"2017-01-27T01:00:33","date_gmt":"2017-01-27T09:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=14087"},"modified":"2021-05-31T13:39:39","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T20:39:39","slug":"online-dating-tips-based-data","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/online-dating-tips\/online-dating-tips-based-data\/","title":{"rendered":"25 Quick Online Dating Tips Based on Data"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Navigating the intricacies of online dating can get a little tricky. It&#8217;s hard to know how to break the ice, what to say to keep the conversation going, or when it&#8217;s time to stop chatting and ask for a date. That&#8217;s why to help out, we looked into data from the <a href=\"https:\/\/ad.doubleclick.net\/ddm\/clk\/306955822;126561327;i\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">online dating site and app<\/a> Zoosk to get some quick and easy online dating tips that can help you right away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From ditching the group photo to talking about your kids, here are 25 quick tips to keep in mind as you look for love online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. Show off a little.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nAdding a full body photo can get you 203% more messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. Focus on you.<\/strong><br>\nPeople with more than one person in their profile photo get less messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. Mix it up&nbsp;men.<\/strong><br>\nMen with at least one outdoor photo get 19% more messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4.&nbsp;Keep it honest.<\/strong><br>\nPeople who use the word <em>honest<\/em> in their profile get more messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5. Take a selfie ladies.<\/strong><br>\nWomen with selfies get 4% more messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>6.&nbsp;Short first messages work best.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nFirst messages between 61 and 69 characters get the most replies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>7. Mention his or her&nbsp;profile.<\/strong><br>\nMessages that mention someone\u2019s <em>profile<\/em> get 25% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>8. Have a sense of humor.<\/strong><br>\nSaying that something\u2019s <em>funny<\/em> in a message can boost responses by 108%.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>9.&nbsp;Don&#8217;t be afraid to get cute.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nMessages that use the word <em>adorabl<\/em>e get 106% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>10. Be interesting.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nSaying that something\u2019s <em>interesting<\/em> can boost responses by 94%.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>11.&nbsp;Mention your pet.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nMessages that mention a <em>pet<\/em> get 88% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>12. Religion is an ok topic.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nMessages with the word <em>religious<\/em> get 156% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>13. Go ahead and talk about your&nbsp;kids.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nMentioning<em> kids<\/em> in a first message can get you 34% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>14.&nbsp;Be a health nut.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nPeople with the word<em> healthy<\/em> in their profile get 17% more messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>15.&nbsp;Give a compliment.<\/strong><br>\nMessages with the word<em> cute<\/em> get 54% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>16. Laugh it up.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nPeople with the word <em>laugh<\/em> in their profile get more messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>17. Flatter away.<\/strong><br>\nMessages that use the word <em>gorgeous<\/em> get 45% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>18.&nbsp;Mention his or her hair.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nMessages that compliment someone\u2019s <em>hair<\/em> get 84% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>19. Have fun with it.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nMessages with the word <em>fun<\/em> get 28% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>20.&nbsp;Talk about tattoos.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nMessages that ask about someone\u2019s <em>tattoo<\/em> get 76% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>21. Ask about his or her day.<\/strong><br>\nMessages with the word <em>day<\/em> get 56% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>22. Always be nice.<\/strong><br>\nUsing the word <em>nice<\/em> in a first message can boost responses by 68%<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>23. It&#8217;s ok to admit when you have a crush.<\/strong><br>\nUsing the word <em>crush<\/em> in a message boosts responses by 121%.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>24.&nbsp;Compliment his or her eyes.&nbsp;<\/strong><br>\nMessages that mention&nbsp;someone\u2019s <em>eyes<\/em> get 64% more responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>25. Keep it cool.<\/strong><br>\nMessages with the word <em>cool<\/em> get 62% more responses.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What the data tells us about looking for love online. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":15200,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[888,980,981],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14087","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-online-dating","category-online-dating-tips","category-dating-data"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>25 Quick Online Dating Tips Based on Data<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"From ditching the group photo to talking about your kids, here are 25 quick online dating tips to keep in mind as you look for love 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