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For guys who are online dating, it’s no secret that it can be a bit of a numbers game. How many woman do you match with, how many woman do you message, how many women do you reply to… It all takes a lot of time and it’s hard to know how best to spend yours when all you really want to do is have a good conversation and meet up with someone. That’s why this next bit of information from the online dating site and app Zoosk<\/a>, should help you out a bit… be a gentleman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you’re wondering where to focus your efforts, instead of messaging new people or making new matches, reply to the people you’ve already messaged first. It seems like a normal thing to do but a lot of men overlook it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

According to Zoosk, if you want to get a reply back from a woman and keep the conversation going, reply back to her messages within the day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Men who message women back in the same day have a 62% response rate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Men who wait a day to message a woman have a 50% response rate, which is a 24% decrease.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Men who wait two days before responding have a 45% response rate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So don’t forget to turn those app notifications on and stay on top of your messages. When it comes to online dating, the two day rule definitely does not apply.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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