{"id":15544,"date":"2017-11-20T08:55:18","date_gmt":"2017-11-20T16:55:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=15544"},"modified":"2022-07-07T06:23:59","modified_gmt":"2022-07-07T13:23:59","slug":"food-and-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/food-and-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating Data Study: The Ultimate Guide to Food and Dating"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

With the holidays coming up, here at Zoosk we’ve all been thinking a lot about what we’re thankful for (our health, our families, our friends, our dogs, a Dodgers’ World Series loss, the NES Classic Edition) and also about, well, food. And it got us to thinking… We’ve all heard that saying that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but is it really true? Does food play a role in the way people feel about each other or about who we’re attracted to?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

To get a glimpse into how important food is to blossoming love and personal relationships we analyzed 3,733,185 dating profiles and 364,609,566 first messages to find out how mentioning different foods and food-related phrases changes online daters’ romantic interactions. In addition, we also surveyed over 7,000 singles to get some insight into how food and dating intersect.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And what we found? In many ways, we are what we eat. Food preferences do have an impact on how we interact with each other romantically. And for the most part, any time food and romance come together it\u2019s very positive.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are the takeaways:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Daters’ favorite holiday for food is definitely Thanksgiving
\n<\/strong>58% of singles asked said that Thanksgiving was the best holiday meal by far. Christmas was second with 25% and Easter was last with just 2% of the vote.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Daters’ Favorite Holiday Meal<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Thanksgiving<\/td> 58%<\/td><\/tr>
Christmas<\/td>25%<\/td><\/tr>
4th of July<\/td>9%<\/td><\/tr>
Super Bowl Sunday<\/td>6%<\/td><\/tr>
Easter<\/td>2%<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

2. Talking about food in your profile makes you more attractive (but not yams)
\n<\/strong>Overall, any mention of food in an online dating profile is going to result in an increase in inbound messages. Some foods, such as guacamole, potatoes,<\/em> and chocolate<\/em> are particularly successful at increasing the amount of messages (users with these foods in their profile have over 100% more incoming messages than the average). There are a few exceptions however. Interestingly enough, despite the fact that it is both delicious and wonderful, mentioning fried chicken<\/em> in a dating profile results in 15% fewer messages and yams<\/em> are vastly unpopular resulting in 70% fewer messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Best Foods to Mention in Your Online Dating Profile<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Food mentioned in profile<\/strong><\/td> Increase in inbound messages<\/strong><\/td><\/tr>
Guacamole<\/td>144%<\/td><\/tr>
Potatoes<\/td>101%<\/td><\/tr>
Chocolate<\/td>100%<\/td><\/tr>
Salad<\/td>97%<\/td><\/tr>
Sushi<\/td>93%<\/td><\/tr>
Avocado<\/td>91%<\/td><\/tr>
Pasta<\/td>75%<\/td><\/tr>
Cheese<\/td>75%<\/td><\/tr>
Cake<\/td>72%<\/td><\/tr>
Burger<\/td>68%<\/td><\/tr>
Banana<\/td>66%<\/td><\/tr>
Biscuit<\/td>64%<\/td><\/tr>
Ice cream<\/td>62%<\/td><\/tr>
Fries<\/td>61%<\/td><\/tr>
Seafood<\/td>61%<\/td><\/tr>
Sandwich<\/td>55%<\/td><\/tr>
Steak<\/td>51%<\/td><\/tr>
Junk food<\/td>50%<\/td><\/tr>
Pizza<\/td>48%<\/td><\/tr>
Hot dog<\/td>41%<\/td><\/tr>
Sausage<\/td>30%<\/td><\/tr>
Eggplant<\/td>25%<\/td><\/tr>
Taco<\/td>24%<\/td><\/tr>
Ribs<\/td>20%<\/td><\/tr>
Bbq<\/td>17%<\/td><\/tr>
Burrito<\/td>17%<\/td><\/tr>
Pho<\/td>6%<\/td><\/tr>
Noodles<\/td>3%<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Worst Foods to Mention in Your Online Dating Profile<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Food mentioned in profile<\/strong><\/td> Decrease in inbound messages<\/strong><\/td><\/tr>
Yams<\/td>-70%<\/td><\/tr>
Fried Chicken<\/td>-15%<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

3. Protein is the most popular food group<\/strong>
\nWhen it comes to food groups, protein<\/em> is the big winner with 36% more messages than the average.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most Popular Food Groups Among Online Daters<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Food group mentioned in profile<\/strong><\/td>  Increase in inbound messages<\/strong><\/td><\/tr>
Protein<\/td>36%<\/td><\/tr>
Fruits<\/td>34%<\/td><\/tr>
Vegetables<\/td>19%<\/td><\/tr>
Grains<\/td>16%<\/td><\/tr>
Dairy<\/td>2%<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

4. Foodies are sexy<\/strong>
\nOther than simply talking about food, mentioning that you’re a foodie or talking about cooking will also result in more incoming messages. Profiles that contain the word foodie<\/em> receive 82% more incoming messages, while those who mention the word cook<\/em> receive 26% more incoming messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Chatting about food will only help you a little (except for eggplant)
\n<\/strong>Though mentioning food in your profile can lead to more incoming messages, it probably shouldn’t be the first thing you talk about with someone. For the most part, mentioning food in an initial message doesn’t result in many more replies. But there are some exceptions, the most surprising of which is eggplant,<\/em> which gets 10% more responses than the average.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Best Foods to Mention in An Online Dating Message<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Food mentioned in message<\/strong><\/td> Increase in response rate<\/strong><\/td><\/tr>
Eggplant<\/td>10%<\/td><\/tr>
Biscuit<\/td>4%<\/td><\/tr>
Sausage<\/td>4%<\/td><\/tr>
Salad<\/td>3%<\/td><\/tr>
Fries<\/td>3%<\/td><\/tr>
Vegetables<\/td>2%<\/td><\/tr>
Banana<\/td>2%<\/td><\/tr>
Pho<\/td>2%<\/td><\/tr>
Noodles<\/td>2%<\/td><\/tr>
Hot dog<\/td>1%<\/td><\/tr>
Pasta<\/td>1%<\/td><\/tr>
Sandwich<\/td>1%<\/td><\/tr>
Potatoes<\/td>1%<\/td><\/tr>
Cake<\/td>1%<\/td><\/tr>
Ribs<\/td>1%<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

In fact, some words may even hurt your chances of getting a reply.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Worst Foods to Mention in An Online Dating Message<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Message text<\/strong><\/td>Decrease in response rate<\/strong><\/td><\/tr>
Burrito<\/td>-7%<\/td><\/tr>
Fried chicken<\/td>-7%<\/td><\/tr>
Pizza<\/td>-6%<\/td><\/tr>
Avocado<\/td>-4%<\/td><\/tr>
Junk food<\/td>-4%<\/td><\/tr>
Guacamole<\/td>-3%<\/td><\/tr>
bbq<\/td>-3%<\/td><\/tr>
Sushi<\/td>-3%<\/td><\/tr>
Chocolate<\/td>-2%<\/td><\/tr>
Yams<\/td>-2%<\/td><\/tr>
Ice cream<\/td>-2%<\/td><\/tr>
Carbs<\/td>-2%<\/td><\/tr>
Cheese<\/td>-2%<\/td><\/tr>
Grains<\/td>-1%<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

6. There’s no longer a stigma against vegetarians
<\/strong>Back in 2015, messages that mentioned being a vegetarian<\/em> were a big no-no and resulted in 100% fewer replies than the average. But now that’s it’s 2017, saying you’re a vegetarian is\u00a0a plus. Messages that mention being a vegetarian<\/em> get 3% more replies than the average. Though it’s not a huge lift in replies, it is a huge difference in just two years. In addition, if you say you’re a vegetarian<\/em> in your profile you can get up to 52% more incoming messages. Being a vegan is a plus as well. People who mention vegan<\/em> in their profile<\/a> get 62% more incoming messages than the average.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Getting fast food on a first date is no problem… for men <\/strong>
\nThe majority of women (59%) have a negative perception of their date when they suggest a fast-food restaurant, while only a quarter of men (25%) feel the same way. In addition, <\/span>10% of women said going to a fast-food restaurant for a first date is an immediate deal-breaker.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If a date suggests a fast-food restaurant, women said they think:<\/p>\n\n\n\n