{"id":15760,"date":"2017-12-31T01:00:07","date_gmt":"2017-12-31T09:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=15760"},"modified":"2024-05-16T12:33:39","modified_gmt":"2024-05-16T19:33:39","slug":"online-dating-profile-examples-attract-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/online-dating\/online-dating-profile-tips\/online-dating-profile-examples-attract-men\/","title":{"rendered":"Online Dating Profile Examples to Attract Men"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Are you ready to finally start attracting a man you\u2019re actually going to be interested in? If you want to attract a great guy, it all starts with putting forth your best self in your online dating profile. I\u2019m going to give you some helpful tips for creating an online dating profile to attract men by showing you some specific examples of how to write your profile to highlight what makes you unique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For the sake of this tutorial, I\u2019ll be showing you examples of what the \u2018average online dater\u2019 writes in her online dating profile, and how you can turn the typical mistakes everyone makes into profile gold for yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example 1: How to Avoid Being the Clich\u00e9<br>\n<\/strong>Read 100 profiles and chances are 99 of them will be completely forgettable, or at the very least indistinguishable from each other. This is something you need to avoid if you want to stand out and attract men you\u2019ll be interested in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The average online dater says:<br>\n<\/strong><em>I work in marketing for a fairly large company and love my job.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A successful online dater says:<br> <\/strong><em>In my day-to-day life I work in <a href=\"https:\/\/tylerlorenzen.tech\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/tylerlorenzen.tech\/\">marketing<\/a> for a fairly large company. Not only am I am able to meet new people, help others, and take on new challenges, but I have a ton of fun in the process. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What\u2019s the difference?<br>\n<\/strong>The first online dating profile example is boring, clich\u00e9, and not even remotely interesting, while the second example is fun, playful, and makes the personality pop off the page. This is a women who loves her life and has an enery and passion for what she does. That\u2019s very attractive and makes someone want to learn more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example 2: How to Create Positive Vibes With Your Profile<br>\n<\/strong>The worst thing you could ever do is send negative signals in your dating profile. Negativity is extremely unattractive to others, especially strangers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The average online dater says:<\/strong><br>\n<em>If you\u2019re broke, don\u2019t have a college degree, or are the jealous type, please do not message me. I\u2019m not interested!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A successful online dater says:<\/strong><br>\n<em>Men who are intelligent, driven, and confident are definitely welcome in my world so don\u2019t be shy!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What\u2019s the difference?<br>\n<\/strong>Essentially, both profiles are saying the same thing. Both want an intelligent and driven man who is confident. But the context is completely different. In the second example, we have a woman whose positivity jumps off the page, whereas the first example paints the portrait of a woman who is bitter and frustrated by men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example 3: How to Create a Profile That Oozes Confidence<br>\n<\/strong>The words you choose can have a powerful impression on how you\u2019re perceived. Your goal is to choose words that highlight confidence and avoid seeming needy or desperate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The average online dater says:<br>\n<\/strong><em>I really want to meet someone who is intelligent, works hard, and can make me laugh.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A successful online dater says:<br>\n<\/strong><em>I tend to click best with men who are intelligent, driven, and love to be silly and have a good time. If you can make me laugh till it hurts you are definitely ahead of the pack!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What\u2019s the difference?<br>\n<\/strong>Using the words \u201creally want to,\u201d makes you seem like a woman that is sitting around hoping she can somehow find someone who fits these qualities. By playing around with the world choice, not only does it make your tone more confident, but the writing is light-hearted and playful as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example 4: How to Visually Represent Yourself Effectively<br>\n<\/strong>The pictures you post are equally important to the words you write. After all, people are extremely visual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Photos from the average online dater:<br>\n<\/strong>Tend to involve several pictures standing alone or random solo shots where they aren\u2019t engaged in any activity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Photos from a successful online dater:<br>\n<\/strong>Tend to paint a diverse picture of who she is by telling a strong visual story. Pictures that reveal your friends, hobbies, interests, sense of humor, likes, and personality add up to an explosive visual story that will make men jump at the chance to date you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What\u2019s the difference?<br>\n<\/strong>Your profile should show men what you look like at your best, but also paint a picture of what it would be like to be in a relationship with you. Only showing yourself posing alone is a wasted opportunity when you could be attracting men in so many other ways aside from your looks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Joshua Pompey is an online dating and relationship expert. For more information about Joshua Pompey\u2019s professional online dating profile writing service visit <a href=\"https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/professional-online-dating-profile-writing\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/joshuapompey.com\/men\/professional-online-dating-profile-writing\/<\/a>. <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don&#8217;t be an average online dater. 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