{"id":16040,"date":"2018-02-12T01:00:31","date_gmt":"2018-02-12T09:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=16040"},"modified":"2021-05-31T12:48:08","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T19:48:08","slug":"live-single-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/single-life\/live-single-life\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Really Live the Single Life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>When you think of living the single life, you probably picture serial dating, non-stop partying, and late nights out on the town. While that may be how some people live the single life, there\u2019s so much more to it than that. The real key to living the single life is building a relationship with yourself, tending to yourself, and loving yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are a few ways to live your best single life:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. Embrace your single status.<br>\n<\/strong>Define what single means to you and totally own it. Wear it as a badge of honor. Don\u2019t let your engaged friends or your prying family members deter you from being single and proud of it. Being single means you\u2019re independent\u2014and that\u2019s awesome!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. Instead of focusing on what you don\u2019t have, focus on what you do&nbsp;have.<br>\n<\/strong>Single people are often depicted as lacking. We focus on what they\u2019re missing, be it a partner or children, rather than celebrating what they do have. Instead of dwelling on what you\u2019re missing, take stock of all the things that make your single life great. Recently get a promotion at work? Have a loyal group of friends? Proud of your passion for volunteering? Those things are just as important, if not more important, than being in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. Spend more time alone.<br>\n<\/strong>That might not sound like the advice you\u2019d expect to hear. But spending time alone is the best way to get to know yourself. So if you\u2019re truly going to embrace your single status, put some alone time on the books. See a movie matinee alone. Dare to dine solo. Go for a long walk with just your thoughts. The more you get to know yourself, the happier you\u2019ll be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. Be more spontaneous.<br>\n<\/strong>Because one day, you might not be afforded the same flexibility.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5. Travel. A lot.<br>\n<\/strong>That country you\u2019ve always wanted to visit? Or that road trip you&#8217;ve always wanted to take? Go for it! That friend you haven\u2019t seen since college? Go visit them! It\u2019s much easier for single people to just get up and go. So why not do it? Again, later in life, you might not have the same freedom to do so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>6. Move around.<br>\n<\/strong>When you\u2019re single, you have much less tying you down to one particular place. Which is why you should move around and experience life in different places. Depending on what you do for work, you could move cities every few years, or hop from place to place even sooner than that. It\u2019s easier to pick up and replant roots when you only have yourself to worry about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>7. Say yes more.<br>\n<\/strong>We often limit ourselves by judging people, places, and experiences too quickly. What would happen if you said yes and embraced what you wouldn\u2019t normally choose more often? You never know who you\u2019ll meet, what you\u2019ll learn, or where you\u2019ll end up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you really want to live the single life, take chances and allow yourself to experience as much life as possible. Some day, if you want to settle down and start a family, you\u2019ll look back fondly on your single years and be glad that you did.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Be your best self. 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