{"id":16383,"date":"2017-08-14T01:00:08","date_gmt":"2017-08-14T08:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?post_type=video_post&#038;p=15519"},"modified":"2021-08-11T07:11:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:11:20","slug":"how-to-ask-a-girl-out-examples-of-what-to-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-advice-men\/how-to-ask-a-girl-out-examples-of-what-to-say\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Ask a Girl Out: Examples of Exactly What to Say"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Approaching a woman you&#8217;re interested in and taking the step to actually ask her out on a date can be a daunting task. Often, you&#8217;re so caught up in talking and things are going well but it&#8217;s hard to steer the conversation in the right direction. To help you do it right, Marni from The Wing Girl Method has a few tips on&nbsp;how to ask a girl out and examples to show you exactly what to say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"How To Ask A Girl Out: Examples Of What To Say And How To Do It\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/AORmval73_0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Video Transcript:<br><\/strong>Hey daters, I made this video just for you. My name is Marni, owner of The Wing Girl Method, and from here on out, I am going to be your very own personal wing girl, which means it&#8217;s my job to explain women to you and breakdown all the frustrating, confusing, and mind-boggling things that we do. And, I&#8217;ll also tell you what to do to get the women you want using my insider resources.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today, I wanted to answer a question that I got from Daniel about asking a girl out. Daniel writes&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Marni, there&#8217;s this girl that I&#8217;ve been chatting with online for about a month now, how do I move things to the next level and ask her out? And, are there ways that I could do it that could backfire on me? Any help you could give would be great. Thank you, Wing Girl.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Daniel, I&#8217;m going to answer the second part of that question first. Are there ways that you could ask her out that could totally backfire on you? The answer is yes, and I&#8217;m sure that you&#8217;re doing what I&#8217;m talking about right now. The wrong way to do it is to not do it at all, and that&#8217;s exactly what you&#8217;re doing. Do you know what&#8217;s going to happen with this little pen pal of yours? She&#8217;s going to get frustrated that you haven&#8217;t pulled the trigger yet and start wondering things like, &#8220;Is he gay? Does he not like me? Is he fresh off of a breakup and just wants distractions?&#8221; Then, she&#8217;s going to start pulling away and putting her eggs into other baskets, where there&#8217;s actual potential to start cooking and making some good omelets. Instead of ending up with a dry, weathered-up rotten egg like you. You are currently committing the number 1 cardinal online sin: You&#8217;re not moving the virtual connection to the real world. And therefore, it&#8217;s always going to remain in this world. Good thing is, you still have time to save it. She&#8217;s still talking to you and hoping things will progress. So next time you message her, make sure that something within that message resembles an invite to finally meet in-person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, for the second question\u2014How do you ask her out?<br>Well, there are a few ways. There&#8217;s cute, direct, assertive, confident&#8230; Okay, there are a lot more than a few ways. But, at the core of every invite, you must be specific, clear with your intent, and confident in your request. Here are a few ways that you could do it..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Example 1:<\/p><p>&#8220;My fingers are starting to get blisters from all this typing. To avoid serious infection and possible amputation, I think it&#8217;s best if we take this offline and meet in-person so I can flirt with you in real life. What are you doing Wednesday night?&#8221;<\/p><p>Example 2:<\/p><p>&#8220;I am going to x this Friday. Would you care to join me?&#8221;<\/p><p>Example 3:<\/p><p>&#8220;You&#8217;ve never had Indian food? Well then, we have to get you some. There&#8217;s this great place by me that I go to a lot. I want to take you there. Are you free this Thursday?&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>See how all of these examples are clear and specific? There&#8217;s no room for misinterpretation as to what you&#8217;re asking for. It&#8217;s very clear. I&#8217;ve had guys say to me, &#8220;Want to hang out sometime?&#8221; It&#8217;s said as if they&#8217;ve already been rejected and have no faith in themselves that I would ever say yes. Which makes it a hard thing to say yes to unless I really like the guy. Even though, asking a girl out this way doesn&#8217;t guarantee she&#8217;s going to say yes, it will guarantee that she knows what she&#8217;s being asked, and will be attracted to how it&#8217;s done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So Daniel, to wrap-up this little lesson, no more waiting a month to get offline and ask a girl out. Once a connection is made and it&#8217;s clear there&#8217;s something there, move things out of the virtual world in to the real world. Do it confidently, be specific about what you want, and do not second-guess that she will say yes. And I promise, you will get way more yeses than nos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For more tips on how to approach and ask women out, go to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.winggirlmethod.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">winggirlmethod.com<\/a>, or check out my other videos on YouTube. I&#8217;m Marni, your very own personal wing girl and owner of The Wing Girl Method, and I&#8217;ll see you soon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s easier than you think. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":113,"featured_media":16397,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[885,984],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16383","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-advice-men","category-videos"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How to Ask a Girl Out - Examples of Exactly What to Say<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"How to ask a girl out example number 1: &quot;I am going to x this Friday. 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