{"id":16585,"date":"2018-05-09T01:00:09","date_gmt":"2018-05-09T08:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=16585"},"modified":"2021-10-26T02:51:47","modified_gmt":"2021-10-26T09:51:47","slug":"turn-ons-for-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-advice-men\/turn-ons-for-women\/","title":{"rendered":"Women Reveal What Men Do That Turns Them On"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are the little things guys do that women just love? Is it a touch to the shoulder that drives women wild? A great sense of humor? Great manners? To get a better idea of what really turns women on, we talked to single women from the <a href=\"https:\/\/ad.doubleclick.net\/ddm\/clk\/306955822;126561327;i\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">dating app Zoosk<\/a> to see what they had to say.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over 3,000 women answered our anonymous survey and really opened up about what they\u2019re looking for in a guy and how men can catch their interest<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some of the most revealing answers:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI love it when a man lightly brushes your leg or arm when you walk by. Or unexpectedly gives shoulder massages.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI like when a man gives compliments, asks me about my day&#8230; the small things add up and will not be taken for granted.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I love when a man holds my face when he&#8217;s going to kiss me.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI love a man who\u2019s willing to be vulnerable, opens up about his own faults (but isn\u2019t overly self-deprecating), and shows kindness.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI like when a man touches me when he\u2019s talking to me. Just to show that he\u2019s paying attention and tuning into me.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI like a man who smiles, and who I can make laugh. (Because I&#8217;m pretty funny, lol nah).\u201d <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br>\n<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Paying attention to details is a major turn on. I love when a man notices something a woman doesn&#8217;t expect a man to notice.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI want a man who\u2019s honest, hardworking, and not afraid to come work in the garden for a while and just enjoy fresh air and conversation with me.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI\u2019m turned on when a man can give compliments, makes me smile and laugh, open doors, smells real good, or dresses nice for the occasion.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI like it when a guy takes some interest in learning about me, but balances the time by also sharing about him&#8230; Talking about interesting things like current events, or something that he was excited about doing.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI like a man who is humble, considerate, kind, and genuinely cares about others.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI like a man who can carry on a conversation, who\u2019s romantic and passionate, has sense of humor, is good looking, who knows how to respect a woman, and who values family and religion.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;When he&#8217;s there, in the moment.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;When he notices the small things.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;When he can ask very deep questions and be able to answer them with authenticity.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Sense of humor is huge. Kindness is huge. I like assertive men.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I love when a man nibbles on neck or holds me.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;When a man approaches me with humor and respect.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I have to admit, a guy in a suit is definitely a plus plus!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I love when a guy opens a door for me or guides me through a restaurant with his hand on the small of my back.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;I love when a guy comes up behind you when you&#8217;re doing something and puts his arms around your waist and kisses your neck. When he pulls your legs onto his lap when you&#8217;re watching TV. Or when he makes across-the-room eye-contact at a party.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Touching, caressing, kissing, or biting my neck. I like it when a guy takes his time.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cA big turn on for me is when a man is confident in himself and where he is in his life and can eloquently express what he is looking for in a relationship.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m turned on when a guy can be kind and understanding to someone (like a server) even when there&#8217;s sufficient cause to be upset.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I love when a man tries to make me laugh when I&#8217;ve had a hard day.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I find that little things turn me on. Simply show me that you care&#8230; Cook with me, laugh with me, joke with me&#8230; And flowers once in a while are cute!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;When a man is self-confident, but not arrogant, and can be a gentleman.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI\u2019m turned on by a man who knows what\u2019s going on in the world, who takes a stand for something meaningful.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;When they look into my eyes, hold a door open, or casually touch my arm.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Just when a man does unexpected, thoughtful things.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI love when a man whispers in my ear something that&#8217;s just between us to smile about.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m turned on when a man does little things to let you know he was thinking of you. Like call you for no reason, buy you some little, non-expensive gift like a single flower or whatever he thinks I might like. Make something for me like draw a picture or write a poem, even if he can&#8217;t draw or even if he isn&#8217;t a poet.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI enjoy intelligent conversation, mixed with a great sense of humor and a splash of innuendo!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m turned on by a man who knows his way around the kitchen.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI love a man who can engage in conversation about ideas, philosophy, music, art, science.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Over 3,000 women answered an anonymous survey about what men do that drives them crazy (in a good way). <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":16586,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[885],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-advice-men"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Women Reveal What Men Do That Turns Them On<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"What are the little things that guys do that are the biggest turn-ons for women? 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