{"id":16876,"date":"2018-06-23T14:00:43","date_gmt":"2018-06-23T21:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=16876"},"modified":"2021-11-04T07:45:52","modified_gmt":"2021-11-04T14:45:52","slug":"8-senior-dating-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/over-50-dating\/8-senior-dating-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Senior Dating Tips to Have the Best Time"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

A lot of people believe that once they hit their 50s, dating quickly goes downhill. <\/span>We convince ourselves there\u2019s slim pickings out there, or that no one\u2019s going to find us attractive anymore. But we couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Others worry about how everything seems so different from when you did it before. Online dating seems like the way to go, but it\u2019s terrifying from afar. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But guess what?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s not too late for you. It\u2019s never too late!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And whether you\u2019re simply looking to get out there and make some new friends, or you\u2019re looking for something a little more serious, we\u2019ve got some tried and tested senior dating tips to help you have the best time.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Get over the stigma.
\n<\/b>Online dating is the new way people meet now. It\u2019s no longer seen as something for people who are desperate or strange. The sooner you get okay with that in your head, the better.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are so many online dating sites now, including ones aimed at people aged 50 and over. They\u2019re safe, easy to use, and a great place to meet people with shared interested who aren\u2019t too far away from you. Plus, it means you don’t have to go to a bar to meet people. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Don\u2019t wait too long to meet up.
\n<\/b>It\u2019s best to keep the messaging online to a max period of two weeks before meeting up. There\u2019s only so much you can learn and know about someone without meeting them in real life. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A casual chat over a drink or up of coffee is a great way to get to know someone, and will help you figure out if you\u2019ve got much in common, or if there\u2019s any chemistry there. <\/span>If you\u2019re nervous, try chatting on the phone first so that you open up a little more and put yourself at ease. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Don’t take it too seriously.
\n<\/b>You\u2019ve probably spent your whole life being serious and responsible\u2014now it\u2019s your time to let your hair down and just enjoy yourself!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adopting a playful, spontaneous, positive attitude is so much more attractive to others, and it allows you to have a way better time when dating. <\/span>Don\u2019t look at this as a chore\u2014it\u2019s an incredibly exciting new adventure for your heart and soul.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Get the perspective of someone younger.
\n<\/b>It\u2019s natural to feel a little out of touch, and if you\u2019ve got kids or nephews or nieces, or anyone who\u2019s 30 or under, don’t be afraid to ask them for a bit of help.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They can help take a great photo of you which you can use as your profile picture, they can give you pointers on your bio, and also help you with any technical issues you might have using an online dating site.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Prepare to meet lots of different people.
\n<\/b>You\u2019ll find so many different people, personalities, interests and backgrounds on dating sites. It doesn\u2019t matter who or what you\u2019re looking for\u2014it\u2019s out there. Just be prepared to encounter some people that aren\u2019t your cup of tea too. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s the same as real life\u2014not everyone will be like you, and you won\u2019t want to be friends with everyone.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Find a dating site to suit your needs.
\n<\/b>As I mentioned earlier, there are tons of dating sites and apps out there\u2014many aimed specifically at senior daters. Each one has its own pros and cons, and it\u2019s worth taking the time to do a little research to find the one that\u2019s going to suit you the most.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And don\u2019t be afraid to try a few out and see which one you prefer. There’s no rule that says you have to be on one site. In fact, most online daters are on two or three.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Pick a great first date spot.
\n<\/b>If you do reach the point of going on a first date, try and head somewhere that\u2019s busy, but not too crowded or noisy. That way there\u2019ll be no awkward silence, and it\u2019ll put you both in a positive, cheery mood. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pick somewhere that\u2019s nice and friendly, but not too fancy. Start with just drinks or a coffee\u2014dinner is a big commitment for a first date.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Take your time.
\n<\/b>It\u2019s okay to take your time and ease yourself back into meeting new people and dating again. There\u2019s no rush. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Get to know someone really well before deciding you want to make things exclusive (if you do). Allow a natural foundation of trust to build gradually over time. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dating in your 50s might be hard, but let\u2019s be honest\u2014dating at <\/span>any<\/span> age is difficult.  <\/span>Remember to stay safe, and enjoy yourself. You never know who you may meet or what you may learn about yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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