{"id":16911,"date":"2018-06-27T14:00:32","date_gmt":"2018-06-27T21:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=16911"},"modified":"2021-05-31T12:29:10","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T19:29:10","slug":"science-of-attraction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-statistics-and-research\/science-love\/science-of-attraction\/","title":{"rendered":"The Science of Attraction: Smell, Voice, & Looks"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Have you ever experienced instant chemistry with someone? It might seem like an undefinable feeling\u2014a moment where you’re flooded with attraction towards a person you\u2019ve just met. It\u2019s that feeling that leads people to say \u201cWhen you know, you know,\u201d or \u201cIt was love at first sight,\u201d or other common proclamations about how love works in mysterious ways.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, love might be mysterious, but attraction isn\u2019t. There\u2019s a growing amount of scientific research into attraction, and how it affects our bodies and brains. Of course there are the things we think of first when trying to describe why we’re attracted to someone: their personality, their good looks, or their sense of humor. But there\u2019s actually a lot more going on underneath all that, down to a molecular level.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Smells are more important than you know.
\n<\/b>A lot of what we learn when we smell a potential partner is communicated to our body\u2019s systems subconsciously. Ever heard of pheromones? We secret pheromones at different times\u2014when we’re scared, hungry, and yes… feeling attracted to someone. (Though there is some scientific debate about that.)<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are tons of ways that our sense of smell controls our attraction levels. <\/span>There\u2019s evidence that suggests<\/span><\/a> smell subconsciously signals us that our partner is healthy, or if we might be genetically compatible. Men can smell when a woman is fertile, and <\/span>women can smell how symmetrical<\/span><\/a> a man is (symmetry is a big factor in attraction). There\u2019s also <\/span>this study<\/span><\/a> that found women preferred the smells of men who had a group of genes known as the major histocompatibility complex that differed from their own. The idea there is that women are scenting out men who can help them reproduce the healthiest babies possible. It\u2019s evolution at work.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Attraction can stress you out.
\n<\/b>If you\u2019ve ever felt that someone’s so hot it\u2019s sickening, you\u2019re not wrong. Cortisol gets released when you\u2019re falling for someone. It\u2019s a stress response that can actually make you nauseated. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What you see is what you get.
\n<\/b>There are studies that show women are able to tell a lot about a man just by looking at him. Women were shown photos of men who had compromised immune systems after receiving a vaccination. <\/span>The women in the study<\/span><\/a> found men who had the strongest immune system reaction to be the most visually attractive. It sounds bonkers, but there\u2019s apparently a lot more at work when we look at someone than we might think. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When it comes to physical attraction, the power of visuals goes both ways. <\/span>Men have been shown<\/span><\/a> to find a woman more attractive when she’s at her most fertile moment of the menstrual cycle. <\/span>Another interesting tidbit:<\/span><\/a> women who live in low-income environments are likely to have a stronger attraction to more traditionally masculine-looking men, but women in higher economic spheres tend to be visually drawn to men who look more feminine. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We fall for sound, too.
\n<\/b>Scientists have discovered<\/span><\/a> that when a woman is fertile, her voice sounds more seductive to men. And women react more strongly to men with deeper voices. One study in particular found that men who heard a woman\u2019s voice could get tingles in their skin. The fact that this can happen based of just the sound of someone\u2019s voice is wildly cool.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s all about the chemicals.
\n<\/b>When you\u2019re really into someone, your body starts firing off a complex chemical compound designed to keep you hooked on that feeling. You might know dopamine as the hormone that makes you happy. <\/span>According to Haley Decker, writing for The Odyssey Online,<\/span><\/a> \u201cdopamine has the exact same effect on the body that cocaine does, and you can easily become addicted to it.\u201d When we\u2019re crushing hard, our bodies start releasing dopamine like there\u2019s no tomorrow. It suffuses through the whole body, which is why you might feel like you can\u2019t get enough of the person you\u2019re attracted to. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Noerpinephrine is another hormone that comes into play. It\u2019s like adrenaline, but for love. Decker writes that \u201cit helps you to say the right things and pay attention\u201d in order to achieve your end goal: mutual attraction. It\u2019s like a temporary superpower that keeps you fully in the moment. If your hands start sweating and your knees get a little shaky, that\u2019s the noerpinephrine hitting your system. Serotonin is also important in the attraction chemical makeup. It can affect your moods, sleep, and appetite. It\u2019s great in the beginning stages of attraction, but if it gets cut off by a sudden rejection, the lack of it can mess you up. Oh, and don\u2019t forget oxytocin. That\u2019s what gives you that heart-melting feeling.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Attraction can make you dumb.
\n<\/b>Scientists have found that certain sections<\/span><\/a> of your brain turn on or off when you\u2019re falling for someone. The amygdala, the part of your brain that controls fear responses, shows less activity when you’re in love. The frontal cortex of your brain is responsible for judgment and predicting future outcomes. When you\u2019re falling for someone, that cortex goes dark (figuratively). When you\u2019re attracted to someone, your brain basically becomes your hype man and dials down the parts of you that might make you more cautious. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s a lot of scientific research into what goes on in our bodies as we become more attracted to someone. It\u2019s worth noting that most of these studies assume heterosexuality in their subjects, so a lot of what we know is based on that. Hopefully researchers start to look into the ways attraction differs in different sexualities, but a lot of the things we know already are probably applicable no matter who you\u2019re attracted to. So the next time you get butterflies in the pit of your stomach, just remember: it\u2019s probably the cortisol. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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