{"id":17393,"date":"2018-09-14T14:00:52","date_gmt":"2018-09-14T21:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=17393"},"modified":"2022-03-31T03:26:08","modified_gmt":"2022-03-31T10:26:08","slug":"dating-while-separated","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-while-separated\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Must-Know Tips for Dating While Separated"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

As a newbie to the online dating scene, meeting strangers is like learning a whole new language. The rules have changed, the expectations are different and unfortunately, sometimes, so are the manners. It\u2019s okay to be nervous, but honestly, don\u2019t worry. By training yourself to grasp the basics, you can adjust to the guidelines. From learning to flirt through text or conversations to avoid, you\u2019ll be prepared to date even if you\u2019ve been bundled up in marriage for decades. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s how to glide through dating while separated: <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. <\/span>Be realistic.
\n<\/b>Don\u2019t fantasize about the ideal person before you meet them. Although finding a George Clooney or Victoria Secret-looking lady may be nice in our dreams, it\u2019s unrealistic. Sorry. When you create these unrealistic expectations, you close yourself off to great dating experiences. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

To avoid setting yourself up for disappointment, have practical hopes when dating while separated. I’m not saying your should abandon your basic requirements; obviously, you deserve someone who can offer care, trust, and love. Just don\u2019t make your requirements unreasonable and ditch someone because they\u2019re bald or don\u2019t own an upscale loft. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let go of your delusions about the perfect person and instead, focus on making room for someone wonderful who exists in real life. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Don\u2019t misrepresent yourself.
\n<\/b>Setting up your online dating profile can feel scary. You\u2019re displaying yourself to  complete strangers, which to many, feels like joining a meat market. But don\u2019t overthink it too much; accept that your profile pic is part of the process and be confident. Do not select a pic that doesn\u2019t accurately represent your appearance. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, we understand that it\u2019s tempting to use the most flattering filtered photos, but it\u2019s not the real you! You can\u2019t use that hot beach pic from your workout glory days if that\u2019s not how you currently look. It\u2019s dishonest. People are there to see the real you, so give them a chance to like you for who you are. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Text smart.
\n<\/b>Online dating requires you to be a good texter. Let\u2019s start with flirting; your texts should feel fun and playful. Make witty comments like, \u201cMaybe you\u2019ll find out on our date,\u201d or, \u201cWouldn’t you like to know?\u201d This type of sweet teasing is always great because it leaves the other person curious and eager to learn more about you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Next, there\u2019s the grammar issue. Just because your English teacher isn’t around to judge your writing skills, doesn\u2019t mean other people won\u2019t. Well-written sentences and good grammar is sexy, especially if you\u2019re trying to attract high-quality dates. Small things like spelling out \u201cyou\u201d instead of  using \u201cu\u201d shows you\u2019re an intelligent, confident person. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Don\u2019t play games.
\n<\/b>Long gone is the rule of  waiting three days to text. The idea that delaying contact creates mystery is totally outdated. Nowadays, this approach means you’ll be forgotten. The online dating scene is fast-paced and impatient, so if someone doesn\u2019t hear from you soon, they\u2019ll assume you don\u2019t care.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bottom line, if you want them, text them right away. You\u2019re allowed to feel vulnerable when being proactive, but don\u2019t play games. If the person is actually interested, they\u2019ll be glad you reached out. Make it clear you had a great time and see if they\u2019re open to meeting again. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they don\u2019t respond, it means they’re not interested. If so, just shrug it off. It\u2019s not because you\u2019re not a great catch; they just aren\u2019t the right match for you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s vital to have confidence when dating. You\u2019ll save lots of time and energy by focusing on the people that matter, not the ones who don\u2019t. So increase your chances of happiness by having tough skin and avoid games. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if you\u2019re a newcomer to the dating world, the most important part is to have fun. So savor the freedom of meeting new people and don\u2019t take the process too seriously. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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