{"id":17521,"date":"2018-10-02T14:00:06","date_gmt":"2018-10-02T21:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=17521"},"modified":"2021-05-31T10:57:33","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T17:57:33","slug":"does-he-think-about-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/does-he-think-about-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Does He Think About Me? 10 Total Giveaways"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

When you\u2019re crushing on a guy, there\u2019s one thing every woman wonders: Does he think about me?<\/em> And while it may feel like an impossible question that you\u2019ll never know the answer to, there are some ways to find out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t have to become a mind reader to know what a guy is thinking. Whether you\u2019re new acquaintances, co-workers, or friends, when a guy is thinking about you, he exhibits some textbook behaviors. And if you look closely, you\u2019ll be able to detect signs that you\u2019re on his mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Guys aren\u2019t as difficult to read as you might think; you just have to know what to look for. If you\u2019re wondering, Does he think about me?<\/em> then ask yourself if he does any of the following things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. He texts you early in the morning or late at night\u2026
\n<\/strong>When it comes to texting, some guys play hard to get. They might do things like only text if you text first, or wait arbitrary amounts of time to reply. But if you\u2019re the first person he\u2019s texting in the morning or the last person he\u2019s talking to before bed (or both), he\u2019s clearly thinking about you. And he\u2019s not trying to hide it, either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. \u2026and when he\u2019s out with his friends.
\n<\/strong>Additionally, if he texts you when he\u2019s out, you\u2019re definitely on his mind. And he\u2019s probably told his friends about you, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. He DMs you or tags you in funny Instagram posts.
\n<\/strong>Notifications like \u201cSaw this and thought of you\u201d and \u201cThis reminded me of that one time\u201d are modern day flirtation tactics. If he sees things and immediately thinks to send them to you, then yeah, he\u2019s definitely thinking about you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. He remembers what you say\u2026
\n<\/strong>Another sign that a guy thinks about you is that he listens to you. When he recalls something you\u2019ve told him, it shows he\u2019s invested in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u2026and follows up about it.
\n<\/strong>It\u2019s one thing for a guy to remember something you\u2019ve told him. But it\u2019s even more telling when he asks you about it later. Not only does it show that he\u2019s invested in your life, but also that he genuinely cares about how it\u2019s affecting you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. He also brings up things you didn\u2019t tell him.
\n<\/strong>Thanks to social media, you can know a lot more about someone than what they tell you. If a guy mentions your cat by name or your love of cinnamon rolls on Saturday mornings in passing, he\u2019s clearly spent some time getting to know you via your online profiles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. He lets you know he\u2019s available.
\n<\/strong>Whether he\u2019s available to drive you to the airport or available for a dinner date, if he\u2019s reminding you that he wants to make time for you in his schedule, then you\u2019re definitely on his mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. He doesn\u2019t talk about other girls.
\n<\/strong>Some guys think nothing of commenting about another girl\u2019s looks or bringing up their dating life. But if he never talks about other girls around you, it\u2019s probably because he thinks about you in a romantic way, and hopes you do the same about him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. It feels like you\u2019re strangely in sync.
\n<\/strong>Do you ever have moments where it feels like you\u2019re perfectly in sync with him? It\u2019s probably because of your subconscious. Our brains often pick up on other people\u2019s feelings and tell our gut to take action. So if he\u2019s thinking of you and doing things to try and win you over, your body very well may already be aware of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. He actually tells you that he\u2019s thinking about you.
\n<\/strong>Simple, direct, and to the point. You have to give him points for his honesty. If he\u2019s opened up, just make sure you don\u2019t leave him hanging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When a guy thinks about you, he\u2019ll find a way to tell you. It might be subconscious at times, but if you pay attention and know what signs to look for, you\u2019ll be pleasantly surprised at how easy guys are to read.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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