{"id":17528,"date":"2018-10-08T14:00:19","date_gmt":"2018-10-08T21:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=17528"},"modified":"2022-03-31T03:23:59","modified_gmt":"2022-03-31T10:23:59","slug":"should-i-ask-her-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/should-i-ask-her-out\/","title":{"rendered":"Should I Ask Her Out? How to Know She’s Waiting for You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Women, like all people, can be hard to read. Take their smile, for instance. The difference between a smile that says, \u201cPlease go away,\u201d and one the says, \u201cI think you’re cute,\u201d can be pretty small. And if you’re not well-versed in reading the signs, it can be hard to know where you stand. If you’re interested in a woman and think you’re getting the come hither vibe from her, there are some giveaways that make it a bit easier.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some indicators that a women’s waiting for you to ask her out: <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019s eye-flirting with you.
\n<\/b>A woman\u2019s eyes tell all. Direct and longing, the eyes are a dead giveaway. Even if she\u2019s mastered a good poker face, she can\u2019t hide behind her eyes. So if you can\u2019t tell how she feels, don\u2019t focus on her facial expressions, make eye contact.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are two specific types of eye flirting to look out for:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shy eye contact.
\n<\/span><\/i>For shy girls, the eye contact may be slightly different. She\u2019ll still have that soft, longing look, but it\u2019ll be mixed with some awkwardness. Maybe she\u2019ll glance at you and you\u2019ll feel that spark, but then she\u2019ll get uncomfortable and look away. With this type of girl, you\u2019ve got to take the lead, so be confident about asking her out.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bold eye contact.
\n<\/span><\/i>The second type of eye flirting is the most obvious one. She\u2019s the sassy type of girl who\u2019s not afraid to give you that come-hither stare. In this case, you\u2019ll notice prolonged eye contact. Take this opportunity to hold her gaze and show you\u2019re interested too. It\u2019s the most natural approach for you both, creating that exciting spark moment. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the signal is this clear, don\u2019t chicken out! She wants to date you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She’s acting laughs or flirts a lot.
\n<\/b>When a girl acts flirty around you, she’s attracted\u2014simple enough. This type of flirting can be easy to miss though. A slight, high-pitched giggle or moments of fiddling with her hair can suggest vulnerability and desire. You might also notice a smirk or semi-smile where she presses her lips together, showing that she feels chemistry.  Look for these tiny gestures; they show she wants to feel womanly around you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger hints come across a lot more flirty. If she\u2019s shy, she\u2019ll do it more nervously like fluttering her hands around when she talks or acting cute and embarrassed. Bolder women, on the other hand, will ruffle their lady feathers much more obviously. She\u2019ll be beaming with a big smile, pushing her shoulders back to flaunt her chest, while throwing around a lot of teehees. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But watch out for forced flirting, like a half smile. It means she’s just being polite, when in reality, she\u2019s uncomfortable and disinterested. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She gets close to you.
\n<\/b>Attraction is an invisible magnet. A women who wants you to ask her out will naturally be drawn to you. No matter the environment, she\u2019ll try to minimize the space between you, hoping that you\u2019ll sense her inviting vibe.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Notice what excuses she has to be physically closer to you. She might admire your outfit and ask about your new shirt or seek your help with some random task like opening a lid. If you\u2019re at a lounge, see if she sits near you and glances over at your table. Just don\u2019t blow it by caressing her thigh or something\u2014that gets into creep territory and you\u2019ll kill the mood.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She casually touches you.
\n<\/b>Does she find ways to touch you? Touch, even the most subtle form, can show interest. These touches can be playful, like a nudge on the arm, or something more slight, like an extra long hug when she greets you. A more clear sign of flirty touching might be poking at your facial hair or fiddling with your bracelet. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This type of contact is her way of crushing the platonic boundaries. She\u2019s also trying to increase her comfort level with you, secretly learning what pushes your buttons (literally and figuratively). Take notice of her touching style to see if she\u2019s waiting for you to ask her out.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She acts like she\u2019s waiting for you.
\n<\/b>Not all girls are experts at being patient. If you haven\u2019t already gotten the hint that she\u2019s interested, she may start showing signs of annoyance. The most common scenario is that she\u2019ll seem upset if you already have plans for the weekend. She was hoping that you would\u2019ve asked her out.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can tell when she\u2019s annoyed because she\u2019ll suddenly go cold. Or she\u2019ll answer your text with a \u201ck bye!\u201d. If she\u2019s passive aggressive, she\u2019ll start keeping her messages short or may go the sarcastic route, replying with a \u201ck nice\u201d. These behaviors can be confusing, but can be signs that she\u2019s waiting for you to ask her out. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Women can be puzzles, but they\u2019re not impossible to figure out. Keep an eye out for these signs that confirm she\u2019s waiting for your next move. Just don\u2019t wait too long. Guys who keep the back burner simmering for too long get forgotten. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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