{"id":18084,"date":"2019-01-20T14:00:41","date_gmt":"2019-01-20T22:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=18084"},"modified":"2021-05-31T09:50:00","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T16:50:00","slug":"signs-a-man-is-falling-in-love-with-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/love\/signs-a-man-is-falling-in-love-with-you\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Signs a Man is Falling In Love With You (And 7 He Isn’t)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Have you been dating someone for a little while, and a part of you<\/span> thinks <\/span>things are going well but you\u2019re not totally sure? Or maybe you\u2019re already boyfriend and girlfriend, but he hasn\u2019t said those three words yet, and you can\u2019t help but wonder, \u201cDoes he love me?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t worry\u2014like ninety-nine percent of women out there, you want to know where you stand, but you don\u2019t want to come across as needy and ask him outright. After all, we know men aren\u2019t great at voicing their feelings, so he might be head over heels for you but struggling to say it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are 7 signs a man is falling in love with you, which double up as 7 signs he isn\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He communicates openly & honestly vs. he hides things from you.
\n<\/b>Whenever anything comes up in your relationship that needs to be talked out, you can count on him being there and listening to what you have to say. Likewise, if he has any issues, he speaks to you directly about them, instead of going quiet on you and holding back.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t need to read between the lines because you\u2019re both transparent with each other. <\/span>If you find he keeps things from you, and you struggle to know where you are with him, that\u2019s a sign from your gut that something\u2019s off. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

His body language speaks volumes vs. his actions don\u2019t show he cares.
\n<\/b>Even if your man is one of few words, you can always tell how he feels about you by looking at his body language. <\/span>If he maintains eye contact with you often, holds your hand when you\u2019re walking down the street, or even just hangs out with you while you\u2019re making dinner\u2014it means he can\u2019t get enough of you and wants to be even closer to you than he already is.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If he rarely does any of these things, he might not be at the love stage just yet.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He treats you with respect vs. mistreats you often.
\n<\/b>A good early sign in any relationship is that your male partner respects you and demonstrates this in all areas of life. If he values your opinions, even if they differ from his, takes care of you in all the ways he can, celebrates your successes as if they\u2019re his own, and embraces your weird and wonderful habits; it means he\u2019s invested in you for the long term.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you ever find yourself feeling disrespected by something he\u2019s said or done, it\u2019s important to voice that. If he\u2019s genuinely sorry and doesn\u2019t do it again, you can move past it; but if he seems to not care, then it\u2019s highly likely he doesn\u2019t care about you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He wants you to know his family and friends vs. he isn\u2019t ready to introduce you.
\n<\/b>If he\u2019s eager to introduce you to his closest friends and family, and cares that you get along with them, it\u2019s a strong sign he\u2019s serious about you and sees this going the distance. A man won\u2019t introduce you to the people who matter most in his life unless he\u2019s incredibly proud to be with you, and wants them to fall in love with you just as much as he has.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If he doesn\u2019t make any attempt to introduce you and you\u2019ve been together for a while, let him know you\u2019d like to meet them and see what he says. If it\u2019s a no-go, then that\u2019s a good indicator he isn\u2019t in love.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He’s thoughtful when it counts most vs. he doesn\u2019t think about you much.
\n<\/b>Some guys simply aren\u2019t romantic, so don\u2019t expect to receive roses and serenades from these guys. That being said, if a guy is falling in love with you, he\u2019ll be thoughtful when it matters most. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe he\u2019ll pick up your favorite candy bar from the store, or cook you dinner when he knows you\u2019ll be home late, or make up a hot water bottle for you when you\u2019ve got period cramps. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s little signs like these that show he\u2019s thinking about you and how you feel, and wants to be the most loving partner he can be for you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re best friends vs. there are other people he prefers to spend time with.
\n<\/b>If he\u2019s your favorite person to spend time with, and you are his, then that\u2019s a great sign you\u2019re both falling for each other. You don\u2019t even have to be doing anything particularly fun\u2014you just enjoy being in each other\u2019s company. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You light each other up, and everything feels better when you\u2019re together. If your relationship feels like this, then chances are he\u2019s falling in love with you. If it\u2019s hard work spending time together, then this might not be the right relationship for either of you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He supports you vs. he only thinks about himself.
\n<\/b>Does he encourage you with your career and all your dreams? Is he there standing strong for you in the moments when you feel a little weak? Is he willing to sacrifice and compromise in your relationship? Does he always have your back?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the answer is yes to all of these things, then not only is he a keeper, but he\u2019s probably also fully committed to you.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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