{"id":18327,"date":"2019-02-24T14:00:56","date_gmt":"2019-02-24T22:00:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=18327"},"modified":"2021-05-31T09:37:03","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T16:37:03","slug":"signs-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/love\/signs-of-love\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Signs of Love That Show You’re With the Right Person"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Many people spend a good portion of their lives on a journey looking for the one. Their perfect person\u2014their soul mate. Because nobody wants to get married, fast forward 30 years, and realize they picked the wrong person. <\/span>How much of a bummer would that be? <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But how do you know you\u2019re with the right person? What are the signs? Are there any signs at all? How are you supposed to feel? <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Truth be told, love is different every time for every couple. And, chances are the one for you isn’t going to look or feel the way you think. But, there are a few common signs that prove you\u2019re with the right partner.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can be yourself.
\n<\/b>How exhausting would it be to constantly wear a mask and pretend you\u2019re someone you\u2019re not in a relationship? <\/span>Nobody\u2019s got time for that.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you can be your fabulous, authentic self, speak your truth, and love what you love when you\u2019re with your partner, that means that they accept your differences and cherish them. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They help you become a better person.
\n<\/b>It\u2019s not that you need improving or fixing, it\u2019s more that you make each other even better than you already are; because you show each other points of views and ideas from a new perspective. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You become each other\u2019s teachers, you learn valuable lessons along the way, you evolve together, and you move closer to your soul truth. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You fight productively.
\n<\/b>All couples fight. (And if they say they don\u2019t, they\u2019re lying or there’s something seriously wrong.) <\/span>But when you\u2019re with the right partner, fighting isn\u2019t about blaming, or winning. It\u2019s about understanding each other better, and navigating through this blip with nothing but love and respect. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re able to fight without voices being raised, or one or both people storming off; and you feel closer than you did before\u2014you\u2019re doing it right.  <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t want to change them.
\n<\/b>And they don\u2019t want to change you either. <\/span>You both accept that neither of you are perfect, and you both have your flaws\u2014like every human does. But you love and accept each other fully. And that\u2019s the key to any successful partnership. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You have a physical and emotional connection.
\n<\/b>It\u2019s important to be physically attracted to someone, but that can only take you so far. For a relationship to grow and survive, you need an emotional connection too. This is what deepens your connection, and allows real love to bloom. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you have both, you\u2019re not only lucky to have found each other, but you\u2019re also with the right person.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re always there for each other.
\n<\/b>There will be ups and downs in all relationships, and you\u2019ve made a commitment to each other which means you\u2019ll be there no matter what. You give to each other without expecting anything in return, because that\u2019s what it means to be in love. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you can count on each other to show up, especially when things get rocky, you know you\u2019re with someone who loves you deeply.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You make a good team.
\n<\/b>Do you find you can work together well, like when you\u2019re rowing a boat, or painting your house, or organizing a party? <\/span>It takes time to learn to work well with someone, but the more you work on it the better you\u2019ll get. If you find you two make a good team, then you\u2019re in the right relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re excited for your future together.
\n<\/b>Do you find you both talk about getting married, raising a family, or traveling the world together? Do you both make plans for the future, and stick to them? Do you both say \u2018we\u2019 instead of \u2018I\u2019? <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re open with each other about the future, and you picture it with both of you in it, then you\u2019ve found someone who shares the same values as you do.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you want your future with them in it, and they want you in theirs, what more of a sign do you need?<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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