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When you\u2019re single, there\u2019s nothing more surprising than going on a really good first date. From the initial greeting (handshake or hug?) to the obligatory small talk, and all the awkward silences in between, first dates are just known for being awkward. But there are some things you can do to take your first dates to the next level.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cLike most things in life, the best way to avoid an awkward date is to be prepared,\u201d Kelsey Lord, matchmaker and dating expert with <\/span>Three Day Rule<\/span><\/a>, tells The Date Mix. \u201cThat sounds funny, I know, because how could you possibly prepare for the unknown? But if you do your due diligence before the date, you\u2019ll likely have a lot more fun and feel a lot less pressure when the date does come.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being prepared can mean having a list of questions you want to ask or a fun story or two to tell. It can also mean planning a memorable night out that your date is sure to enjoy. So here are some creative first date tips that will help you and your date have a great time. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tell a fun story.
\n<\/b>According to Lord, having a funny story in your back pocket is huge secret advantage when it comes to first dates. For one, it can showcase your personality early on and keep your date hooked. And two, it\u2019s just the kind of thing you need to pull you out of any awkward silences. If you need some help, think of your best \u201ccraziest thing that happened to me\u201d story. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNot only will these stories keep the conversation flowing, but they will lighten the mood and make the date way more fun than basic small talk,\u201d Lord explains. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Get competitive.
\n<\/b>You\u2019d be amazed at how much people reveal about themselves when they\u2019re in the middle of a game. You can find out how competitive someone is, how they handle stressful situations, and whether they\u2019re a sore winner or loser. Engaging in a competitive activity is also great if you\u2019re on the shy side. It\u2019ll give you something to focus on in the moment while you get more comfortable with your date. It\u2019s also easier to laugh and bond over things that are happening in the moment. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Head to a thrift store.
\n<\/b>There\u2019s really no need to break the bank in order to have a great time. If you\u2019re looking for something that will test your date\u2019s creativity, head to your local thrift store or dollar store and set a budget challenge. All you have to do is set a budget like $10 per person, and then pick out fun things to do or bring along for your date. Dating coaches Marty Kupper and Dana Lam, owners of <\/span>Fun Fantasy Ritual<\/span><\/a> suggest picking out an outfit for your date. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPurchase and change into the outfit and head out to dinner and\/or an activity in something wacky,\u201d they say. \u201cYou\u2019ll laugh so hard and enjoy the reactions of the other patrons, servers and people you come across for your unusual outfit. Makes for great photo opportunities to share on Facebook and Instagram!\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do a local scavenger hunt.
\n<\/b>Whether you\u2019re new in town or you\u2019ve lived there your whole life, local scavenger hunts can be fun for anyone. There\u2019s always something new to discover. Companies like <\/span>Big City Hunt<\/span><\/a> or <\/span>Urban Adventure Quest<\/span><\/a> can help you get to know your city a little more. You can even get creative and make up your own little local adventure. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Take a class together.
\n<\/b>Taking a class together is a great idea because it takes the pressure off of a typical first date. You don\u2019t need to worry about filling silences with a good story because you\u2019ll be focused on doing something else. You\u2019ll also get to see how your date interacts with others and how they handle potentially stressful situations. Try to pick something you\u2019re both interested in, but have never done. That way, it\u2019s a new experience for the both of you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do something that scares you.
\n<\/b>Research has found that doing something that gets your heart racing, like <\/span>watching a scary movie<\/span>, can make your date like you more than they already do. When people do an activity that makes their heart race, they have a tendency to attribute those feelings of fear and anxiety to sexual attraction. It\u2019s a type of date that you\u2019ll definitely bond over. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ask your date silly questions.
\n<\/b>If you had a genie, what are three wishes would you want granted? What\u2019s the most obscure fact you know? What\u2019s the best type of cheese? First dates can sometimes feel like interviews, especially if you\u2019re exchanging the typical \u201cgetting to know you\u201d questions. So don\u2019t be afraid to have fun with it. Get creative and ask questions that can open up for some pretty interesting conversations. Even silly questions like what three wishes do you want granted can reveal a lot about who your date really is. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

First dates can be pretty awkward. But if you use any of these tips, you\u2019ll be sure to have a great time. If all goes well, you may even land a second date.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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