{"id":18875,"date":"2019-04-16T14:00:28","date_gmt":"2019-04-16T21:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=18875"},"modified":"2021-05-31T08:52:20","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T15:52:20","slug":"why-do-you-love-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/love\/why-do-you-love-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Do You Love Me? Heartfelt Ways to Answer the Question"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

The thing about us humans is, we can\u2019t quite believe our luck when we find an amazing person, who thinks we\u2019re equally as amazing as they are. <\/span>We might start to question why they love us, or we might simply be curious about what it is that they love about us.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So when your partner asks you the question, \u201cWhy do you love me?\u201d you want to say something that truly expresses how you feel. You want it to come from your heart.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t worry if you\u2019re not great at showing your feelings, or speaking eloquently. Here are some heartfelt ways to answer the question, and show your partner just how much you adore them.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because I can be 100% myself when I\u2019m with you.
\n<\/b>How many times have you changed who you really are, pretended you liked something when you didn\u2019t, agreed with something when your heart didn\u2019t; just to be accepted or liked?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I think we\u2019ve all been there\u2014especially in our school days. And if we don\u2019t develop a strong enough sense of self-confidence and self-worth, we can continue to struggle with this as adults.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The truth is, it\u2019s hard to find someone who you can reveal all of yourself to, and not only be fully accepted, but also be loved for it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because you encourage me to be the best version of myself.
\n<\/b>It\u2019s on us to wake up each day and be the kind of people that we desire to be, and make ourselves proud. But, when you find a partner who challenges you to go even further, to step up, and to be even greater each day than you were the day before; that\u2019s rare. And it\u2019s beautiful.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We could all do with someone like that in our life.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because my days are better with you in them.
\n<\/b>All of us should feel happy and whole on our own, but when you find your soulmate, you\u2019ll find that happiness just expands. You probably know what I mean.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re content and happy when you\u2019re on your own doing your thing or hanging with your friends, but when you\u2019re together, it\u2019s just <\/span>better. <\/span>So tell them.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because we can do nothing together and it\u2019s still amazing.
\n<\/b>Most people have plenty of people in their lives they can do things with, or at least, it\u2019s pretty easy to find someone to do things with. But most of us struggle to find someone to do <\/span>nothing<\/span> with.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You know, when you\u2019re sitting on the sofa reading a book, and they\u2019re eating a sandwich, and you\u2019re not even talking; but it\u2019s a total breath of fresh air? <\/span>And, if you both happen to fancy each other too\u2014that\u2019s love right there.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because you give unconditionally to me, and I never knew what that looked like until I met you.
\n<\/b>When you find real love, you\u2019ll understand what it truly means to be selfless\u2014to give unconditionally, without keeping score, or expecting anything in return. Not that you don\u2019t want to receive (it\u2019s great to receive too) but that\u2019s not your motive.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When someone shows you this kind of love, it\u2019s life changing. It shows you the kindness of someone\u2019s heart, and their true nature. It shows you they\u2019re not in it for what they can gain, but for what they can <\/span>give. <\/span>That changes the your life, in a wonderful way.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because you love me for who I am, and my humanness.
\n<\/b>None of us are perfect. We all have our own messiness, our own flaws and quirks, and that\u2019s what makes us so beautifully human.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yet someone still loves us. Someone accepts us for who we are\u2014flaws and all. They don\u2019t try to change us, or fix us. They just love us for who we are today.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because you make it so damn easy to love you.
\n<\/b>If you\u2019re in a relationship where love feels easy (on most days), then you\u2019ve found what most of us are still searching for. When love flows freely from your heart and from theirs, with beauty and with grace\u2014that\u2019s when you know it\u2019s real.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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