{"id":18989,"date":"2019-05-23T01:00:26","date_gmt":"2019-05-23T08:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=18989"},"modified":"2021-05-31T08:45:46","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T15:45:46","slug":"he-texts-me-every-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/texting\/he-texts-me-every-day\/","title":{"rendered":"He Texts Me Every Day, So Is He into Me or Not?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Getting a text from a guy you like is exciting. It means he was thinking about you and that he wanted to talk to you. But texting can also be frustrating, because you don\u2019t always know what it means or how to read the situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Texting lacks the context you get from in-person conversations; without seeing him, it can be hard to tell his tone, mood, and body language. And unless he outright states his intentions\u2014which guys rarely do, even though women are attracted to honesty\u2014it can also be hard to tell what he wants your relationship to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We don\u2019t want to generalize, but most guys hate texting. So, if a guy is texting you every day, it has to mean something\u2014right? Maybe, maybe not. It all depends on the context.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some days you might throw your hands up in frustration and wonder, What does it mean? Does he like me? Or does he just see me as a friend?<\/em> Unfortunately, we don\u2019t have one simple \u201cyes\u201d or \u201cno\u201d answer; dating is more complicated and nuanced than that. But we can walk through different scenarios to help you understand if he\u2019s into you or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What does he text you?
\n<\/strong>If you want to know if a guy is into you or not, the biggest clue lies not in how often he texts you, but what<\/em> he texts you. Does he send you funny memes, reference inside jokes to make you laugh, and start conversations because something reminded him of you? These positive \u201cjust because\u201d texts are a great sign that he\u2019s into you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Does he get personal?
\n<\/strong>In addition to \u201cjust because\u201d texts, more serious texts are a good sign that he\u2019s into you as well. If he shares personal details or opens up about personal issues going on in his life, it means he values your opinion and is comfortable being emotional around you. Similarly, it\u2019s a good sign if he asks you questions about your life. It means 1. That he\u2019s invested in your wellbeing and 2. That he wants to hear from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How much does he write?
\n<\/strong>Like we said, most guys hate texting. So, if he takes the time to send you long messages, it probably means that he likes you. A lot. But don\u2019t worry! If he sends you short texts, it doesn\u2019t automatically mean that he doesn\u2019t like you; it just means that he doesn\u2019t like writing a lot. Oh, and if he texts you first? He likes you. Period.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Does he send flirty texts?
\n<\/strong>If a guy texts you every day but you can\u2019t tell if he likes you or not, one of the biggest giveaways is if he flirts with you. Not sexting\u2014that definitely means he likes you\u2014but more subtle, playful comments. Does he get suggestive? Does he talk about what you\u2019d be doing if you were together? These are flirty texts<\/a>. If you\u2019re not sure, test the waters by sending a flirty text of your own. If he\u2019s into you, he\u2019ll be all over it and match your tone right away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Does he say goodbye?
\n<\/strong>These days, most text conversations naturally come to a close on their own. Someone gets busy, you run out of things to say, or both. People rarely acknowledge when they\u2019re going to stop texting you\u2014but if a guy is trying to impress you, he might. If he politely announces when he\u2019s going to stop texting back, it may be a sign that he\u2019s into you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These aren\u2019t hard and fast rules, and every situation is different. But if you pay attention to these factors the next time he texts you, hopefully, you\u2019ll get a better idea of if he likes you or not.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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