{"id":19520,"date":"2020-01-13T09:54:49","date_gmt":"2020-01-13T17:54:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=19520"},"modified":"2021-05-31T08:23:20","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T15:23:20","slug":"signs-a-relationship-is-over","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/break-up\/signs-a-relationship-is-over\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Obvious Signs a Relationship is Over"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Relationships don\u2019t always end with a clear conversation and a \u201chave a nice life\u201d. Often, a relationship displays obvious signs it\u2019s over before the both of you even agree that it is. And though those signs are clear as day, you might still miss them. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re relationship has been heading south for a while but you can\u2019t figure out if it\u2019s over, these eight signs will help you figure out if it\u2019s time to end it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t see each other anymore<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you haven\u2019t seen each other in weeks, though text occasionally, the relationship is likely over. There are times where you might not see each other for extended periods of time, but it only makes the yearning stronger. If that\u2019s not the case, it\u2019s probably time to call it quits. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They told you it\u2019s over<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes we only listen to what we want to hear. And while it might be hard to believe when they say it, if your partner tells you the relationship is over, it is over. Believe them.  They wouldn\u2019t be telling you this if they still wanted to be with you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t talk anymore<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You may find you\u2019ve got nothing left to talk about. You used to fill each other in on every little detail of your day or text random articles or emojis. Now there hasn\u2019t been a text exchange between in what feels like forever.  <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of you is already seeing someone else<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of the clearest signs a relationship is over is when one of you has met someone else.  Whether they\u2019ve come forward about it or you caught them cheating (or vice versa), your hearts are no longer in it. There\u2019s no point in trying to hold on now, it will just cause further heartache. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019ve unfriended you on social media<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nothing feels more like a punch to the stomach than visiting your partner\u2019s social media pages and finding you\u2019ve been unfriended or blocked. Face it, they don\u2019t want you to know what\u2019s going on in their life anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You make efforts to avoid each other<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You know they work out in the evening, so now you hit the gym in the morning. Perhaps you purposely ignore their texts and phone calls. Even the thought of seeing them or talking to them just makes you uneasy. If that\u2019s the case, the relationship is done. Be kind and call it off, ghosting isn\u2019t acceptable.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 You don\u2019t fight anymore<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s nothing left to fight about. Though fighting can signal and the end of a relationship, fighting can also be a sign that you\u2019re trying to find a way to work things out. When there\u2019s no more fighting, neither of you care anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They took down all their social media posts of you<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you still have access to their social media accounts, you may notice that all the photos of you and them together have been taken down. They\u2019re basically telling their family and friends they\u2019ve moved on too. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Realising your relationship has come to an end is never easy. That said, it\u2019s important to know when it\u2019s time to move on. Though it\u2019s going to hurt, focus on the future and take time out to heal. Remember, you deserve happiness!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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