{"id":19627,"date":"2020-02-26T09:18:11","date_gmt":"2020-02-26T17:18:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=19627"},"modified":"2023-06-23T08:33:29","modified_gmt":"2023-06-23T15:33:29","slug":"things-to-ask-a-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/online-dating\/online-dating-first-message\/things-to-ask-a-girl\/","title":{"rendered":"12 Unique Things To Ask A Girl On A Dating App"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

So you\u2019ve decided to use a dating app because you want to meet an amazing girl, but how do you make sure you stand out from all the other guys? <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe you\u2019ve already matched with someone you\u2019re super interested in, or maybe you\u2019re nervous to start matching because you just don\u2019t know how to <\/span>start an interesting conversation <\/span><\/a>out of thin air.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t worry, I think we\u2019ve all been there. You don\u2019t want to go with something boring or generic like, ‘Hey, how are you<\/em>?’ because that\u2019s not exciting, it doesn\u2019t give her a sense of who you really are and it doesn\u2019t help you learn anything interesting about her.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What you need is a bunch of unique things to ask a girl on a dating app. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Top Things To Ask A Girl And Make An Impression<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s your favorite song of all time?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is quite specific because there’re millions of songs out there and you\u2019ve asked her to pick just one, which is more special to her than all the rest. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe you\u2019ll discover a band or musician or music genre you both like in the process, and even end up going to a festival or gig together in the future. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, how many people message you that just say \u201chi?\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A funny question to ask if you\u2019re not sure what to say, but you still want to be different. This will probably make her laugh, and show her that you\u2019re not like the rest of them. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Who knows where the conversation will go from here!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s your idea of the perfect day?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is <\/span>a much better question<\/span><\/a> to ask than \u2018what does your typical day look like?\u2019 because it allows her to think of her dream scenario. This question lets her delve into all the wonderful, exciting things she would like to do rather than what she might <\/span>actually <\/span><\/i>do. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It will also help you figure out if you share similarities in the kind of lives you want to live.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think was a better discovery: Amazon or Avocados?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is just one of those random, funny questions that don\u2019t make a whole lot of sense but will probably make her LOL. They\u2019re totally different things and can\u2019t really be compared, which makes this a ridiculous yet hilarious question to ask a girl on a dating app. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

People LOVE avos and the Amazon, is well, the Amazon.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you could have any superpower, what would it be and why?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The typical answers to this question are the desire to be invisible, go back in time, or read people\u2019s minds. You\u2019ll discover how her mind works by what she says, and get to see how creative she is.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you had three wishes from a genie, what would you wish for?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe one of her wishes will be to find an amazing man, and you can swoop right in and be like, \u201cI\u2019m right here.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You might find out that nobody has ever done anything overly romantic for her – in which case you can do something sweet for her on a date; like bring her flowers or her favorite candy bar. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or, you may find out she\u2019s not really into romantic gestures, in which case you should still bring her flowers because, well, no woman <\/span>doesn\u2019t <\/span><\/i>like receiving flowers.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you were an animal, which one would you be and why?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This will help you figure out if she\u2019s an animal person or not, if she has any pets and her feelings on the topic. You may find that you\u2019re both dog lovers and think cats are evil. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You may learn she loves panda bears, which may mean she\u2019s quite independent and enjoys her own space. S<\/span>he might tell you she wants to be a bird, which could mean she\u2019s seeking freedom or wants to escape something in her life right now. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What are you most likely to stay up all night talking about?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is a more exciting way of asking someone what their passions and interests are. Everyone is passionate about something, and could talk for hours about it without getting bored. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just being asked this question will make her light up, because she\u2019ll be talking about something she loves. Maybe you\u2019ll find you have some common interests or something you want to know more about. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What three fictional characters are you most like?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This one is a real test of her imagination. She\u2019ll have to stop for a moment and think about it. Her answer will give you a good glimpse of how she sees herself. Maybe this will differ to who she actually is and how others see her, but either way, it\u2019ll be interesting to see what she says. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Who knows where the conversation will go?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s the cheesiest message you\u2019ve ever received on a dating app?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every woman – including myself – has received some awful pickup lines while using dating apps. This just goes with the territory. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is a great ice breaker, and will also give you a good indication of what she likes and doesn\u2019t like, so you can see if you\u2019re likely to be compatible or not.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you were ever to write a book, what would it be about?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another wonderful way to find out about her interests and whether you share any. Plus, who knows, maybe she has actually written a book, and then you\u2019ll have something really special to talk about.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You have one meal left. What would you pick as your last meal on earth?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is a good way to find out what their favorite kind of food is, and start thinking of great places you could potentially take her on a first date. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ask her to go to town on this one and pick a starter, main, and dessert. People often say that the way to a man\u2019s heart is through his stomach, but women are <\/span>exactly <\/span><\/i>the same. The only thing we love more than eating food is talking about it!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re trying to think of things to ask a girl, get creative, get personal, get specific and if you get stuck, use this list for inspiration. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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