{"id":19773,"date":"2020-04-27T08:23:17","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T15:23:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=19773"},"modified":"2022-08-19T05:19:55","modified_gmt":"2022-08-19T12:19:55","slug":"male-body-language-signs-of-attraction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-advice-women\/male-body-language-signs-of-attraction\/","title":{"rendered":"Decoding Male Body Language: Signs Of Attraction"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

He likes me? He likes me not? <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s easy to get stuck with this looping monolog running through your head. Because when you meet a guy for the first time, how do you know if he\u2019s attracted to you or just being nice?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Often right in the beginning, most men won\u2019t be bold enough to come out and just <\/span>say <\/span><\/i>they like you. Because they don\u2019t want to risk being rejected, just like you! The good news is that there are key male body language signs of attraction<\/a> you can pick up on. You just need to know what you\u2019re looking for. Here are 8 signs that he\u2019s attracted to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Male Body Language: Signs of Attraction You Can Decipher<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He smiles a lot, and with his eyes<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Smiling with his lips is one thing. But smiling with his eyes too is a different story.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When a guy smiles with his whole face and gets those little creases around his eyes, it\u2019s a good thing. It means he\u2019s genuinely happy, and radiating feelings of warmth towards you. And that\u2019s a strong indication that he\u2019s attracted to you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A guy who smiles only with his lips may be faking it. A sincere smile goes a long way to saying \u2018I like you\u2019! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He plays with his hair<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You might think only women do this, but you\u2019d be wrong. And because we\u2019ve been taught this is something women do, we don\u2019t tend to notice men doing it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But they actually do it a lot. Particularly if they\u2019re with a woman they\u2019re attracted to. Pay attention to when his hands go towards his hair. That includes facial hair if he has any.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is his way of subconsciously grooming himself, so he can look his best to you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\u2019ll raise his eyebrow<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If a man is interested in what you\u2019re saying, his eyes will naturally become wider and more open. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This will lead to him <\/span>raising his eyebrows<\/span><\/a>. And this is a surefire sign that he likes you. So while you\u2019re giving him eye contact, be sure to check out those brows. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He moves closer to you<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men have a tendency to move closer towards people they\u2019re interested in. That might mean he leans in across the table at dinner. Or if he\u2019s taller than you, he might soften his posture so that he\u2019s closer to you. If you\u2019re in a noisy bar, he might move his head closer to yours, so he can hear what you\u2019re saying. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This allows him to get a little closer to you, and test whether you\u2019re comfortable with it or not. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He touches his face<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Along with his hair, he might also <\/span>touch his face<\/span><\/a>. He\u2019s doing this to make sure he looks good, but also to draw your attention to his face. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Notice any subtle chin strokes, touching of the ears, cheeks, or forehead. And if he\u2019s <\/span>nervous<\/span><\/i>, he may even use his fingers to check if he\u2019s sweating or blushing. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

These are all signs that he wants to look good for you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He finds excuses to touch you<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Both men and women do this when they\u2019re interested in someone. And it can be totally PG like a high five or a hug. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If a man does things like gently graze your arm, reaches for your hand, places his hand on the small of your back, brushes your hair behind your ears, or playfully tickles you – these are BIG indicators that he\u2019s into you. And he\u2019s trying to signal this to you in a subtle way.  <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He mirrors you<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Human beings have a tendency to mirror the body language of people they like. This happens with friends and family, as well as romantic partners or people we\u2019re attracted to.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So when you\u2019re with a guy, you might notice that his body subconsciously starts to mimic yours.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re resting one of your hands on your face, he might do the same. If your legs are open towards him, he might naturally move to an open stance with his. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This mirroring is a way of building a connection. Plus, we tend to be more attracted to people who behave like we do, so this boosts his chances of you liking him back. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\u2019ll take a wide stance with his legs<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finally, on our list of male body language signs of attraction is the position of his legs. It\u2019s widely known that when a man is attracted to you, his legs will take a wider stance and become spread open towards you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is because he wants to show you everything he has to offer. A form of peacocking!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A lot of guys tend to sit like this casually at times. So it\u2019s difficult to say whether he\u2019s just sitting comfortably, or he\u2019s attracted to you. But if this is frequently his position of choice with you, it\u2019s probably <\/span>not <\/span><\/i>a coincidence. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So if you\u2019re wondering if he is into you or not, tune your radar into these signals and decode what message he is trying to send you in his body language! <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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