{"id":19912,"date":"2020-06-29T09:44:39","date_gmt":"2020-06-29T16:44:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=19912"},"modified":"2023-03-07T06:55:47","modified_gmt":"2023-03-07T14:55:47","slug":"signs-she-wants-a-serious-relationship-with-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-advice-men\/signs-she-wants-a-serious-relationship-with-you\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Surefire Signs She Wants A Serious Relationship With You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Boy swipes right. Girl swipes right. Boy and girl start dating and wonder if and when it\u2019ll go from casual to serious, but don\u2019t want to say too much too early and jinx things. So they play it cool and pretend like everything is chill, all the time. Sound familiar?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Many modern daters are wary of showing all of their cards. They worry that wanting to get serious will make them look weak and less desirable, so they go with the flow and suppress their feelings, especially early on.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019re big advocates of telling people how you feel with confidence. But even if the person you\u2019re dating doesn\u2019t come right out and say they want to get serious, you can still pick up on clues from their words and actions. Here are the surefire signs she wants a serious relationship with you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

How to Spot the Signs She Wants a Serious Relationship with You<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. She likes having deep conversations<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    When you\u2019re casually dating someone, getting to know them on a deep, personal level isn\u2019t always a priority, and there\u2019s nothing wrong with that! You stick to surface-level topics like work, news, and pop culture, have casual fun, and call it a day. But when you want to be exclusive, you\u2019re interested in learning as much as you can about someone.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    If she likes having deep conversations about important topics ranging from your family and your childhood to your thoughts and beliefs – and opens up about these topics herself – then it\u2019s an easy to spot sign she wants a serious relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    1. She\u2019s responsive<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

      When a girl wants to get serious, she doesn\u2019t play games. She responds to texts in a reasonable amount of time, she doesn\u2019t abide by the now ancient \u2018three-day rule\u2019 and <\/span>she won\u2019t ghost you<\/span><\/a> or disappear for days on end. It\u2019s her way of showing that she doesn\u2019t want to waste your time or keep you guessing; she wants to spend it together because she\u2019s serious about you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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      1. She talks about the future in big ways\u2026<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

        One of the clearest, most direct ways you know a girl is <\/span>interested in getting serious<\/span><\/a> is if she talks about the future, and specifically, asks about <\/span>your<\/span><\/i> future. She\u2019s gauging what you see in your future, if it aligns with her vision for her own future, and if you have room for her in it. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

        If she asks about your career path, where you see yourself in five years, if you want to get married, or if you want to have kids, she\u2019s interested in settling down and getting serious with you. She wouldn\u2019t bring up these topics if she wasn\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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        1. \u2026and small ways, too<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

          Sometimes, girls talk about the future in more subtle ways, too. If she buys tickets to a concert that\u2019s three months away with the intention that you\u2019ll go together or invites you to a wedding that\u2019s next season, know that she\u2019s getting serious about you. And how you respond to these invitations, though seemingly small, will speak volumes to her about where you stand.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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          1. She leaves things at your place<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

            She didn\u2019t leave that comfy pair of shorts in your drawer or that contact solution in your medicine cabinet by accident. She\u2019s envisioning a world where she\u2019ll be at your place often enough to use them. If you want to show her that you\u2019re serious, too, buying her a toothbrush to keep at your place is the most romantic gesture you could possibly do and will win you serious relationship points.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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            1. She\u2019s introduced you to her friends<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

              Girls don\u2019t introduce their friends to just anybody. But when they get serious about a guy, they want their friends to meet him so they can get their honest opinions of him. If she suggests getting drinks with her gal pals, it\u2019s a sign she\u2019s ready to take things to the next level.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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              1. She comes right out and tells you<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

                Not every girl beats around the bush. Some come right out and say it. Like we said above, when girls get serious about guys, they stop playing games. If she\u2019s really committed to settling down and being exclusive, she might just come right out and tell you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                If she\u2019s done any of the above things, be ready to have the \u201clet\u2019s not see other people\u201d conversation. Or, if you\u2019re so inclined, beat her to the punch and be the one to bring it up.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                Look out for these signs she wants a serious relationship with you, but if you\u2019re still not sure about where you stand, don\u2019t be afraid to come right out and ask. If you want to get serious with her, it\u2019s best to know how she feels about you now so you can either focus on building a future together or start to move on if she doesn\u2019t share the same feelings as you.  <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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