{"id":19919,"date":"2020-06-30T10:22:31","date_gmt":"2020-06-30T17:22:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=19919"},"modified":"2021-05-31T07:53:47","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T14:53:47","slug":"how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-into-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-advice-women\/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-is-into-you\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Tell If A Guy Is Into You Without Asking Him"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With the many modes of communication available today, you\u2019d think how to tell if a guy is into you would be easier. You&#8217;d hope he could snap or text or tweet or watch your IG story and you&#8217;d just <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">know<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but it still remains that the male species can be hard to read.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Beyond all of the ways to communicate (where little communication can actually take place), there can be that whole problem of us filling in the gaps.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s say a guy you like offers to drive you and your roommate to the airport, you might think,&nbsp; \u201coh, he totally likes me! He\u2019s making sure we don\u2019t have to get an Uber!\u201d Only to realize later that he was actually looking to hang out with your roommate. It\u2019s happened to all of us ladies, and it blows.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But guys aren\u2019t as difficult to decipher as you might think. You might just need to quit overthinking it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may have been raised on romantic comedies and think that the only way to really<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/undeniable-signs-that-he-likes-you\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> know a guy is into you<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is if he does a grand gesture. He sends you a dozen roses with a note that says, \u201cI love you. Let\u2019s run away together,\u201d or he choreographs a flash mob that ends with him kneeling to propose. If you\u2019re only looking for grand gestures, you might miss his more subtle signals altogether.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But don\u2019t fear. Here&#8217;re the tried and true signs to look for that the guy who\u2019s caught your eye has you in his sights too.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>How to Tell If a Guy is Into You: 5 Ways to Spot It&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><b>He leans toward you<\/b><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The next time you\u2019re out somewhere with this gent, look at his feet. Weird, I know, but ask yourself,<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are his feet pointed at you? <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sounds weird, but when we are interested in someone, we point our bodies at them. We lean forward to make sure we hear them. We don\u2019t cross our arms. We maintain eye contact. We also may even mirror them: when they cross their legs or shift their body weight, we may too.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pay attention. If his body ain\u2019t pointing at you, sadly his heart probably isn&#8217;t either.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><b>He gets nervous around you&nbsp;<\/b><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is he flubbing his words? Is he spilling his drink or tripping over himself? Is he talking so fast he\u2019s not even taking the time to catch his breath? Is he extolling all of his endless virtues and slipping how much money he got with his recent raise? Don\u2019t automatically take it that you\u2019re speaking to a self-absorbed dork who can\u2019t seem to keep his balance on a flat surface.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-advice-men\/signs-she-likes-you-more-than-a-friend\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a dude is into you<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, he may feel and act just as nervous as you in the same situation. Realize that he may not be a total weirdo who can\u2019t keep his balance on a flat floor. Realize that you may have knocked him off his feet and he\u2019s trying to sweep you off yours.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><b>He gives you a lot of attention<\/b><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he\u2019s pointing his feet at you, it\u2019s likely he\u2019s going out of his way to chat with you wherever you are too. He might be texting you asking you about your day or asking you questions about your job, your dog, and even your mother.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he\u2019s interested, he\u2019s going to want to know about you. It might come off as an interrogation sometimes, but know that he\u2019s actually wanting to really know you. He may also be regularly checking in just to make sure he keeps showing up in your mind, and your inbox.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><b>He\u2019s touching you<\/b><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His leg casually brushes yours under the dinner table. He puts his hand on your back when walking somewhere with you. He touches your arm while he\u2019s laughing or to emphasize a point.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A dude that isn\u2019t into you isn\u2019t going to be making excuses to touch you. He\u2019ll actually be trying not to give that impression to you at all by making sure not to touch you at all.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><b>He includes you in on his plans&nbsp;<\/b><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether it\u2019s with his buddies or for an after-work gathering, he lets you know. He\u2019s letting you know because he\u2019s hoping you\u2019ll show up. He <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">wants<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you there. Don\u2019t take it as him friend-zoning you or just because he sees you as a buddy. He wouldn\u2019t tell you about those plans if he didn\u2019t want you included on them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Take it as a huge compliment if he invites you out with his friends. That\u2019s a big deal.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, men can be like an entirely different species sometimes. You may be yelling at them in our head, \u201cWHY can\u2019t you just say how you feel??\u201d. But while you try to figure out how to tell if a guy is into you,&nbsp; the answer may, really, be right in front of you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t get caught up in the fallacy of grand gestures. You might get those every once in a while, or after you\u2019ve been dating someone for a while, the real tell is actually in the subtlety.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Spot the signs that he&#8217;s into you! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":177,"featured_media":19920,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[886,997],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19919","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-advice-women","category-love-advice"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How To Tell If A Guy Is Into You Without Asking Him<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Wondering how to tell if a guy is into you? Sometimes it&#039;s tricky to read the signs. 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