{"id":20021,"date":"2020-08-04T12:53:07","date_gmt":"2020-08-04T19:53:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=20021"},"modified":"2021-05-31T07:51:09","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T14:51:09","slug":"40-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-in-your-40s\/40-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"40+ Dating: 5 Ways It\u2019s Changed Since You Were Last Single"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

40 somethings, this is for you. It\u2019s your time to re-enter the dating game and shine! Beginning your 40+ dating journey may feel nerve-wracking, but it\u2019s an exciting new chapter! From online dating to modern expectations, there have been some changes in the dating world. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If it\u2019s been a few years since you were last single, there\u2019re a few things we should fill you in on to make this a successful new chapter. Don\u2019t worry, we\u2019ll cover the bases. To get you up to speed, here\u2019re the five ways dating has changed…<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everything You Should Know about 40+ Dating Today<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Almost everyone\u2019s online<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whether it\u2019s dating apps or social media, almost everybody\u2019s online and it plays a big role in the search for love today. So if you\u2019re not on social media yet, this may be your time to take the plunge! Getting used to socializing online is a good way to start, and when you feel ready, introduce yourself to the modern dating world by <\/span>creating an online profile<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you get the hang of it, online dating is easier than you think and allows you to meet more potential suitors than ever before. There are even specific 40+ dating websites for you to meet like-minded matches. According to a 2017 study, <\/span>nearly 40% of couples these days meet online<\/span><\/a> and we bet that number\u2019s only going up, so why not try it out! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Those thumbs need to work<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When it comes to modern dating, texting is one of the most important skills to become comfortable with. It may sound simple, but it\u2019s true! Since so much dating happens online now, this is probably how you\u2019ll say hello to your matches or ask them out. Making a good first impression counts, be that online or in real life. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

While upping your text game may be key to romantic success, don\u2019t worry if you don\u2019t think your current skills are up to scratch. Learning to flirt over text can be fun. Use emojis. Ask the right question. Text back in a reasonable timeframe. Learn how to build tension. To get the lowdown on texting etiquette in your 40s, take a look at <\/span>our texting rules<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dating multiple people at a time<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you cast a wide net you catch a lot of fish, and the same goes for dating. When you were last on the market, talking with multiple suitors at the same time may have been frowned upon, but that\u2019s not the case today. This means 40+ dating is totally on your own terms. Thanks to texting and the internet, it\u2019s a lot easier to connect with multiple people. It\u2019s also just more acceptable. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Speaking with a match online doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re exclusive, it just means you\u2019re getting to know each other. And it\u2019s perfectly acceptable to get to know more than one match at a time. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you connect with someone and there turns out to be no spark, don\u2019t worry about it! Simply send them a quick message to explain, unmatch, and get back to exploring this new dating world. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s more than marriage<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And by more, I mean less, and by less, I mean many people are looking for less. Have you gone through a divorce? Or maybe you\u2019ve just split up from your long-term partner? If this is the case, marriage may be the last thing on your mind. But that doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t date!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

40+ dating can be a great way to meet new people! It doesn’t always have to lead to something long-term or serious. Spend this time getting to know yourself again. Rediscover what you like and don\u2019t like in a suitor. Casually dating is totally acceptable these days, just make sure you\u2019re upfront about your intentions with matches first.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, if marriage is a priority for you, don\u2019t feel discouraged, online dating is here to help! Set your profile preferences so that you only match with people who have the same relationship expectations as you. This way you won\u2019t waste time speaking with people who aren\u2019t ready for something serious. It\u2019s a good way to speed up your love story!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

40+ dating can be empowering<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

While romance in your earlier years may have been full of dramatic games, dating later in life can often be more straightforward. At 40, most people have experienced some highs and lows in life, and have a pretty good idea who they are. You also probably have responsibilities that make your spare time precious, so why spend it with someone whose company you don\u2019t enjoy? <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before diving into the dating pool, think about exactly what you want from it. If you\u2019re looking for something serious, don\u2019t feel guilty about turning down someone who is only looking for something casual. And if you don\u2019t feel ready for something exclusive, don\u2019t feel under pressure to settle down. Feel empowered by your preferences and the life you have created for yourself so far. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Navigating dating at any age can be tricky. Sure, the dating world may look slightly different from the last time you saw it, but that doesn\u2019t mean you won\u2019t find love or have fun trying! Be patient and give yourself time to get used to this new normal. Who knows, maybe this chapter will be your favorite one yet!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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