{"id":20093,"date":"2020-09-04T08:24:00","date_gmt":"2020-09-04T15:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=20093"},"modified":"2023-11-22T12:32:08","modified_gmt":"2023-11-22T20:32:08","slug":"online-dating-rules","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/online-dating-tips\/online-dating-rules\/","title":{"rendered":"Online Dating Rules: Today\u2019s 7 Smart Commandments"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Online dating can be a wild world. On the one hand, it&#8217;s an exciting opportunity to meet a variety of people. You&#8217;ll be opened up to new things, new personalities, and maybe even a great relationship. On the other hand, it can also be full of ghosts and catfish who may not be who they say they are.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, how can you make your experience a success?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Following today\u2019s online dating rules can make it easier to find your perfect partner and have your happily ever after with a good dose of fun on the way!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Today\u2019s Online Dating Rules<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Rule 1: Be open about what you&#8217;re looking for<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to finding your perfect match, research has shown that you should be upfront and honest about what you&#8217;re after.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A study found that<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/time.com\/72618\/the-words-most-likely-to-find-you-online-dating-success\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">people who used the word &#8216;love&#8217; in their dating profiles<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> were more successful in finding long-term relationships online than those who took a more casual approach to build their profiles. Be honest, and it can lead you where you want to go!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re looking for a serious relationship, let the world know.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re just looking to date around and keep things casual, be clear about it. By making your intentions known, you&#8217;ll be weeding out any unsuitable matches right from the beginning.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Rule 2: Use photos, accurate ones<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nobody wants to look at a profile without a photo. A lack of photos may cause potential matches to wonder what are you hiding?! This is not the way to go about making a good first impression.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use a couple of recent photos of yourself that accurately depict what you look like. We all want to look great in the photos that we post online, but don&#8217;t make your photos so unrealistic that your date gets a shock when they meet you in person. You want them to be attracted to what you really look like and the goal is to meet in person! There\u2019s no point hiding behind inaccurate photos, it&#8217;s only a waste of both your time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Rule 3: Really get to know each other<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/advice\/relationship\/new-relationship-advice\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">great things about starting a relationship<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with online dating is that you get to work on your communication skills right off the bat. In the beginning, there\u2019s no physical affection to cloud your mind on whether or not you get along.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plus, if you&#8217;re looking to find The One, the time you spend chatting online can help boost your connection and heighten emotional intimacy before even meeting.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Rule 4: Don&#8217;t be afraid to try new things<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most people think they have a certain type they stick to when finding a romantic partner, be it a blonde, brunette, or boho artist!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whatever your type, why not<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marriage.com\/blog\/tips\/benefits-of-online-dating\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">use online dating<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to step outside of your usual go-to and see who else may actually be a great fit?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You never know what kind of amazing person you&#8217;re missing out on by narrowing your search requirements. Take a chance and see what you&#8217;re missing out on.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Rule 5: Choose your dating app wisely<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re not selective, there can be a lot of options and distractions when dating online. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s so important to choose your dating app wisely. Do your research and see which dating app suits what you&#8217;re looking for.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some dating apps have a reputation for being more suited to casual dating, while others may be more likely to match you with a serious partner. Research online, speak to friends, and test them out until you find which is <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/online-dating-advice\/best-online-dating-sites\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the best dating app for you<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and your preferences.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Rule: 6: Meet sooner rather than later<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Online dating can feel like a never-ending circle of dates that don&#8217;t lead anywhere, a time-waster that doesn&#8217;t amount to even one in-person date.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is not uncommon in the world of online dating. A survey published by the Pew Research Center found that<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/fact-tank\/2016\/02\/29\/5-facts-about-online-dating\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">one-third of online daters<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> will never meet the people they&#8217;re talking to.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But you can beat the odds by making a plan to go on a date within the first two weeks. It&#8217;s important to get to know each other first and make sure you&#8217;re comfortable meeting up in person<\/span><b>, <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">but once you feel the butterflies, don&#8217;t wait!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Rule 7: Always be safe<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not everyone has the best intentions so be aware of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/online-dating-tips\/safe-dating\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dating safety, while still having fun<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">! Here\u2019re a couple of steps you can take to make sure they\u2019re the real deal:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0Do a Google reverse image search and see if their <a href=\"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/online-dating\/online-dating-profile-tips\/dating-profile-photos\/\">profile photo<\/a> belongs to someone else.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">B<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e wary of people who&#8217;re coming on too strong. People who catfish are notoriously impatient.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Video chat. This is the best way to see if they are who they say they are.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask for their socials. Checking their social media accounts is a good place to start.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meet somewhere public in the beginning.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let your friends\/family know the details about your date beforehand.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t give your date too much personal information in the early stages.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never ever send your date money or give them your credit card information.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t overdo it on the drinks on your first date.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suggest a double date if you&#8217;re feeling unsure.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Above all else, trust your instincts. If something smells fishy or seems too good to be true, it just might be.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All these online dating rules may seem a bit tedious. But it\u2019s quite the opposite. Being aware of these dating commandments can help you have the best time out there! Online dating opens up opportunities to meet a whole new world of wonderful singles. Remember to enjoy the process and be open to where it can lead you. 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