{"id":20177,"date":"2020-10-01T09:29:22","date_gmt":"2020-10-01T16:29:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=20177"},"modified":"2021-05-31T07:41:11","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T14:41:11","slug":"dating-an-independent-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-advice-men\/dating-an-independent-woman\/","title":{"rendered":"What Men Should Know About Dating An Independent Woman"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Dating an independent woman is something that many men desire. They’re impressive, attractive, and fun to be around. What’s not to love?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But how exactly do you impress a woman who knows exactly what she wants? And if her independent lifestyle is non-negotiable, how could this affect your relationship down the line?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some things you should know about dating an independent woman\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dating an Independent Woman: Our Top 7 Tips<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She doesn\u2019t need you to take care of her, but might still want you to <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just because she doesn\u2019t need you to take care <\/span>of<\/span><\/i> her, doesn\u2019t mean she doesn\u2019t want you to care <\/span>for<\/span><\/i> her. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even though most independent women juggle a million things, some find it challenging to ask for assistance. Maybe it’s because they dislike feeling dependent on others or are nervous about seeming weak. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That’s why the way to an independent woman\u2019s heart is often offering help. Taking some of her stresses away will help her understand that you support her and want her to succeed. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t ask her if she <\/span>needs<\/span><\/i> help, because she doesn\u2019t. Instead, ask her if she <\/span>wants<\/span><\/i> help. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if she refuses? Maybe ask her one more time for good measure. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019s probably not interested in playing silly games<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re used to dating partners who love the chase, then dating an independent woman might be more straightforward than you’re used to. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When this kind of woman says something to you, she most likely means it. She probably isn\u2019t interested in playing hard to get because, well\u2026 she already is hard to get!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chasing men is likely not high up on her to-do list. So be upfront with your intentions and ask her what exactly she wants from you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That way, you\u2019ll both know where you stand. And you can pursue the connection without constantly wondering what\u2019s on her mind.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another plus is that you probably won\u2019t get ghosted by this girl. Why? Because if she\u2019s not enjoying your company, she\u2019ll probably let you know. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She may seem to have high standards\u2026 but what\u2019s wrong with that?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s a well-known quote that reads \u201cI\u2019m allowed to be high maintenance because<\/span> I <\/span>maintain it.\u201d That\u2019s probably a relatable phrase for most independent women.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dating an independent woman means you\u2019ll probably have to put a little more effort into your dates than just arranging your usual ‘Netflix and chill’. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Realistically she\u2019d probably rather watch Netflix on her own than with a guy she barely knows. And honestly? We don\u2019t blame her.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And she\u2019s not necessarily looking for a relationship either, so simply focus on making your date a night she\u2019ll enjoy. <\/span>That way, she\u2019ll see you\u2019re someone worth blocking off time in her calendar for. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remember, she doesn’t need your attention to fulfill her. She can do that on her own.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019ll probably end things if her standards aren\u2019t being met<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

While many people may stay in so-so relationships because they\u2019re scared of being alone, an independent woman doesn\u2019t have those concerns quite as often. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Having standards is healthy<\/span><\/a>. And if she feels that hers aren\u2019t being met, she\u2019ll likely end things. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She appreciates alone time. So don\u2019t get offended <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The quickest way for this courtship to go south is to make her feel guilty for not being available. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just because she\u2019s not available 100% of the time doesn\u2019t mean that she\u2019s not interested. Maybe she\u2019s just busy or in need of some alone time. The best thing you can do is to give her the time she needs. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if she\u2019s busy because she\u2019s stressed out about her hectic schedule, ask her if there\u2019s something you can do to help out. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe you could order some delivery food to her place for dinner? Or try scheduling a couples\u2019 massage for an upcoming weekend. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be prepared to love her from afar sometimes. It\u2019ll mean a lot to her. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She may take things slower than you\u2019re used to<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re the type of guy who invites their partner to move in with you after the third date, then maybe this isn\u2019t the lady for you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

An independent woman may worry about losing herself in a relationship. So be prepared to take things slow. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be patient. Instead of pressuring her, focus on making her feel comfortable. That way, she\u2019ll feel safe being vulnerable with you over time. <\/span>Enjoy getting to know her without setting expectations.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She has her own hobbies and wants you to have yours too<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The reality is, your crush had a life before she met you. And just because you\u2019re dating, doesn\u2019t mean she wants her hobbies and routine to fall by the way side. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whether her passion is traveling, reading, or working out, she likely sees it as an outlet to destress. And it isn’t fair to try to take that away from her.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Having hobbies is key to maintaining a balanced life<\/span><\/a>. And studies show it\u2019s better if you pursue some of your interests solo. So don\u2019t be offended if she doesn’t ask you to tag along. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, use this time to rediscover some of your own pastimes! Try your hand at a new sport or throw yourself into a music group. Having fulfilling alone time is one of the fundamental ingredients to a happier relationship<\/a><\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Independent women have weaknesses and strengths just like everyone else. If you\u2019re used to being in relationships that aren\u2019t exactly 50\/50, then dating a secure woman may take some getting used to. But trust us, the risks are worth the rewards.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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