{"id":20198,"date":"2020-10-06T09:46:48","date_gmt":"2020-10-06T16:46:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=20198"},"modified":"2021-05-31T07:40:32","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T14:40:32","slug":"dating-rules-for-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-advice-women\/dating-rules-for-women\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating Rules For Women: Do They Still Exist? And If So, What Are They?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

In recent years, dating has changed and so have the dating rules for women!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

These rules aren\u2019t meant to restrict women. Instead, they exist to empower them! Each woman is free to decide her own.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Laying down the law when it comes to relationships is key to leading a fulfilling life. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why having a guide to reference what you should do if someone is taking advantage of you or how to handle a break-up<\/a> can be useful. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, here are our 6 dating rules for women who want to be happy!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6 Modern Dating Rules for Women<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Know your dealbreakers<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dealbreakers are your non-negotiables and they’re pretty easy to determine. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re the things that would immediately turn you off of a potential partner. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, would you date a smoker? Do you mind if your potential partner has different political beliefs than you? What if they don\u2019t want kids?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important to keep your dealbreakers well-defined and (preferably) few in number. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Having a bunch of them may result in a very small dating pool. This could prevent you from meeting someone special!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stay open-minded<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now that you know your dealbreakers, one of our top dating rules for women is to be open-minded. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This means being open to romance arriving in any shape or form. No matter if it’s job, location, or hobbies. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead of focusing on what kind of person you think your date <\/span>should<\/span><\/i> be, concentrate on how they make you feel. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you feel happy with them? Are you attracted to them? Do they support you and make you laugh?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In most cases, these things will provide the basis for a fulfilling relationship much more than a nice suit or an impressive college degree.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So spend more time getting to know who your dates truly are and less time trying to fit them into a box. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pay more attention to actions than words<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s so easy to get swept up with sweet nothings and flirty text messages when you have a new crush. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But while <\/span>romantic quotes are great to hear<\/span><\/a>, sometimes what\u2019s most important in the early stages of dating is action and follow-through. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not only is that a good sign they\u2019re someone of their word, but it also shows that they\u2019re interested in you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if a person is constantly canceling dates and ghosting you? That probably means they\u2019re not a good match.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t play games<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Forget your \u201cI won\u2019t text back until they text me first\u201d or the \u201cI\u2019ll wait three days to call back\u201d mentalities.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we start to play games with our potential S.O., we risk losing them because we\u2019re not showing them how we feel. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sure, being vulnerable can feel daunting. But if your date is creating a safe space for you to share your feelings, then feel free to open up! <\/span>It\u2019ll move your relationship forward leaps and bounds. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if their energy makes you feel uncomfortable sharing your truth? Then this could be a relationship red flag.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Always try to be patient<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

As much as we would love for our successful dates to plan a second one ASAP, that\u2019s not always realistic. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have all commitments and sometimes life just gets in the way!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So if you haven\u2019t heard back from that great date you had last week, relax. Give them the benefit of the doubt.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or why not contact them yourself? It\u2019s 2020, who said women couldn\u2019t make the first (or second) move?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s okay to take a dating break<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes we can put a lot of stress on our dating life.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it\u2019s important to remember that it\u2019s ok to take a break if you\u2019re feeling burnt out. It\u2019s healthy even! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Avoid forcing anything. <\/span>Concentrate on nurturing yourself<\/span><\/a> to become the best version of you! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When it comes to dating rules for women, it\u2019s important to be true to yourself and what you\u2019re looking for. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just choose the rules that work for you, forget the rest, and don\u2019t be afraid to experiment. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What matters most is that they guide you to a full and happy life!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The modern woman’s guide!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":61,"featured_media":20199,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[886],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20198","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-advice-women"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nDating Rules For Women: Do They Still Exist? And If So, What Are They?<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Dating rules for women don't have to be restrictive, they can be empowering! 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