{"id":20518,"date":"2021-04-03T09:50:03","date_gmt":"2021-04-03T16:50:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/datemixstaging.wpengine.com\/?p=20518"},"modified":"2021-05-31T07:34:20","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T14:34:20","slug":"how-to-make-someone-fall-in-love-with-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/love-advice\/how-to-make-someone-fall-in-love-with-you\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You (Be You!)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

So, you\u2019ve met the person of your dreams and you\u2019re waiting for them to say those three special words that everyone longs to hear. We\u2019ve all been there and it can be emotionally draining when you\u2019re wondering if your crush is ever going to say \u201cI love you.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But don\u2019t despair, we are here to help! Here’s how to make someone fall in love with you! From making them feel special to building trust in your relationship, there are plenty of ways to get that special someone to fall for you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, how to make someone fall in love with you?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be real<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you have real and authentic conversations with your partner, it builds emotional intimacy<\/a>. You don\u2019t need to spend hours talking about your most embarrassing moments but when you\u2019re vulnerable with that special someone, it helps to bring you closer together. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you open up, they\u2019ll feel safe enough to share their flaws with you and your relationship will be strengthened as a result. So next time you\u2019re hanging out with your crush, tell them about one of your quirks and see how it goes. You deserve to be with someone who loves you for who you really are.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spend time together<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Put your phone on silent, remove all distractions and spend quality time with your partner. Be attentive and listen closely to what they have to say. This is your chance to get to know them better so that they\u2019ll see how much you care. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This may seem obvious but with the distractions of our busy lives, we\u2019re usually in too much of a rush to slow down and connect. The chances of them falling in love with you increase when you spend more time together.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Get out of your comfort zone<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are you stuck in the same routine? Rather than eating at the same old restaurant for dinner or watching a movie at home, get out there and do something exciting together. New activities boost oxytocin levels and get sparks flying between you and your crush. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plan a romantic weekend getaway or do something adventurous. If you\u2019re feeling brave you can try rock climbing or bungee jumping as a fun couple\u2019s activity. A challenging hike or rollercoaster ride can also boost the connection that you have with your partner. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Make them feel special<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When it comes to knowing how to make someone fall in love with you, <\/span>understanding their love language<\/span><\/a> is key. Try giving that special someone small gifts or using words of affirmation to let them know how much you care. Offering them support when they need it and increasing physical touch can also strengthen your bond. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When your partner feels appreciated and emotionally connected to you, it\u2019s easier to take your relationship to the next level. Not only will this give your partner the nudge they need to say \u201cI love you\u201d, but it\u2019ll also help to make your relationship last.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let them get to know you<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Share your passions and interests with your crush and let them get to know you better. Your favorite activities are what make you interesting and it\u2019s enjoyable to be around someone who loves life. Return the favor by showing that special someone that you\u2019re interested in their hobbies too.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ask them questions about what they enjoy doing and pay attention when they give you the answer. You don\u2019t have to like doing the same things to get along, but it helps to find things that you have in common. Discover activities that you both enjoy, then get out there and do them.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Build trust<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A trusting relationship makes it easier for your crush to let their guard down and say the words you long to hear. <\/span>Trust is built over time<\/span><\/a> in the small moments that you share. If your partner tells you something confidential, don\u2019t repeat it to others. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It goes without saying that you shouldn\u2019t sneak around behind your partner\u2019s back or lie to them. Show your partner that you trust them and give them the space to pursue their own interests. Keep your promises and honor the commitments that you\u2019ve agreed to in your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be ready for a relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re still obsessing over your ex or you\u2019re too hurt from a past relationship to open up, it can be a barrier to finding love in the present moment. Your emotional unavailability makes it hard for your partner to get closer to you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Take the time to heal and work through your past hurts so that you\u2019re ready for commitment when you meet that special someone. It\u2019s also worth taking the time to check that you have the same relationship goals. If they\u2019re only looking for a casual fling, you\u2019re wasting your time by waiting for them to tell you that they love you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now that you know how to make someone fall in love with you, get out there and take your relationship to the next level.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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