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The world of modern dating can be bewildering. Trying to find the best dating app for a relationship<\/a> can leave you with an overwhelming choice. And, to add to the confusion, there\u2019s a growing trend of using apps that are not designed for dating, including Instagram. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yep, you read that right: Instagram dating is a thing now. The place where you post sunny holiday photos and snap some selfies could wind up being where you meet your next great love. But, what is Instagram dating, how does it work, and why are people going crazy for it? We\u2019ve tackled all this, and more, below to give you a complete overview of this new dating trend!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Social Media and Dating: An Introduction<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Social media has long played a role in online dating. It frequently serves as the next place that people connect after matching on a dating app. For many, it\u2019s a handy way to double-check that their match is in fact who they say they are. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIf someone is unwilling to connect on any other platform, it\u2019s a little fishy,\u201d writes Solomiya G in this Date Mix article<\/a>. \u201cSure, maybe they just want to keep their social media accounts private. But if you ask to connect on Instagram or Facebook and they continually refuse, then maybe they\u2019re hiding something.\u201d Wise words indeed. Social media apps can be ideal for a little pre-date sleuthing, so is it really a surprise that people also use them to connect directly?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Why Instagram Dating Is Becoming a Thing Now<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

There are a few reasons why some people might find dating on Instagram more user-friendly than an app that\u2019s built specifically for finding dates. Many dating apps only serve up profiles of people who\u2019re local right now, whereas Instagram allows communication with a broader range of people. And whilst some dating apps only allow messaging to start when two people have matched, on Instagram you\u2019re welcome to send a message to anyone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plus, for millennial daters<\/a>, Instagram can provide great insights into someone\u2019s personality. Instead of looking at a run-of-the-mill dating profile with a cliched bio and some predictable headshots, you can use Instagram to see where someone went on vacation, what their dog looks like, and what kind of food they like to cook. Simply put, the platform can give you a good sense of someone\u2019s personality and what kind of things they\u2019re into.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How to Use Instagram for Dating: 6 Tips and Strategies<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Ready to give it a go but unsure about how to date on Instagram? Below, we\u2019ve put together a few of the main dos and don\u2019ts to get you started and to give you the best chance of having a good experience. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. DO spend some time working on your profile first<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re wondering how to meet people on Instagram, remember that \u2014 just like with any dating app \u2014 your profile is your shop window. So, if you want to try meeting potential partners via Instagram, it needs to be looking its best. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Make sure you have a stellar profile picture, a memorable username, and a succinct bio so that the people you\u2019re looking to connect with can get a good sense of your personality. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. DON\u2019T expect instant results<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

As with other forms of online dating, the \u201cInstagram dating app\u201d isn\u2019t guaranteed to provide you with an instant success story. You\u2019ll need to be patient and play the long game, whilst checking on the app regularly enough to ensure you don\u2019t miss out on a great connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. DO send a friendly DM<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The classic DM slide is a great way to make connections in a way that\u2019s low stakes. And, as with all communication via an app, it\u2019s important to be respectable and avoid seeming pushy. And whatever you do, don\u2019t get too sleazy right away. It\u2019s a turn-off for many. Instead, focus on getting to know people for who they are beyond their cute photos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. DON\u2019T get salty if you don\u2019t receive a fast reply<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If someone doesn\u2019t respond, it might mean they\u2019re not interested. Or, it could be that they just don\u2019t have time. In either case, getting frustrated by that is definitely not going to help, and being patient whilst waiting for a response is important. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cChances are good that if your crush has more than 10,000 followers, you’re not the only one hoping to get a reply,\u201d writes Dana Givens for Thrillist<\/a>. \u201cSo while you don’t want to come on too strong, you also need to ensure your message (singular on “message”) stands out from the crowd.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. DO start a conversation about an unusual photo<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you\u2019re ready to send a DM to someone that you\u2019re interested in getting to know better, try to keep it original! Instead of just giving a simple compliment, ask them an interesting question about a picture they\u2019ve posted or a recent reel they uploaded. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Showing a genuine interest in the person you\u2019re trying to match with can help when it comes to your chances of getting a response and sparking a connection. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. DON\u2019T make the mistake of thinking you know people based on photos alone<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It can be easy to feel like you know someone well simply from following their social media posts. But, it\u2019s important to remember that photos are just a small snapshot of the person. Talking with your crush directly is the only way to truly get to know them, so don\u2019t get your hopes up about chemistry until you connect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

More Ways to Use Instagram as a Dating App<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Instagram dating might not be for everyone. But, if you’re interested in giving it a shot, then it\u2019s time to get your best photos ready and sharpen up your profile! Give it a go and keep these do\u2019s and don\u2019ts \u2014 as well as the best tips for online dating<\/a> \u2014 in mind for the best chance at an awesome experience. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whether you\u2019re experiencing some dating app fatigue<\/a> and want to try something different or you\u2019re looking to use Instagram alongside your other dating app, the platform can be a great place for making meaningful connections online!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The world of modern dating can be bewildering. Trying to find the best dating app for a relationship can leave you with an overwhelming choice. And, to add to the confusion, there\u2019s a growing trend of using apps that are not designed for dating, including Instagram.  Yep, you read that right: Instagram dating is a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":221,"featured_media":29312,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[980],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29311","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-online-dating-tips"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nThe Rise of Instagram Dating & Why It's So Popular<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Discover Instagram dating on Zoosk\u00ae. 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