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Coming up with some intimate things to do with your partner isn\u2019t always easy. Yes, sex and intimacy<\/a> are important parts of any romantic relationship, but talking about them can still be tricky at times. Whether you\u2019re dating someone new or you\u2019re in a committed, exclusive relationship<\/a>, talking with your partner about intimacy doesn\u2019t have to be as intimidating as it might first feel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To help get you started, we\u2019ve put together nine of our favorite ideas for intimate things to do with your partner. So, if you\u2019re finding it difficult to light that adventurous spark in your relationship, trying out some of these intimate things to do with your partner can help to bring back some spice!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Intimate Things to Do With Your Partner: 9 Ideas to Try<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

1. Take it out of the bedroom<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

While the bedroom is the usual spot for getting intimate with a partner, it doesn\u2019t have to be the only place for that. When you want to spice things up a bit, moving out of the bedroom and changing the surroundings gives a sense of adventure. It makes things feel new and exciting and is such a simple way to reignite the spark!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t have to go far either. Try moving to the living room and using the couch as your surface. If you have a private, fenced-in backyard, you can even incorporate some outdoor play. Just be sure you\u2019re not inadvertently involving the neighbors!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Try role-playing<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If moving out of the bedroom doesn\u2019t quite go far enough, take things a step further and try role-playing. Pretending we\u2019re someone else can be so empowering and seriously exciting.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t have to go all out with a fully-fledged storyline and characters though! Role-playing can be as simple as switching up your usual role in bed. Are you normally more submissive? Try being in control. This is a simple but very intimate thing to do with your partner and one that\u2019ll also help to teach you more about one another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Give each other a massage<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

After a long day at work, nothing feels better than receiving appreciation and attention from your partner. Giving each other a massage is a great way to achieve this. It doesn\u2019t always have to lead to sex either \u2014 giving massages is a great way to achieve intimacy without sex<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But, if you want to take it to the next level and turn it into a sensual massage, that\u2019s a bonus. Be sure to set the mood, light some candles, and watch your partner\u2019s tension melt away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Give sexting a go<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If dirty talk isn\u2019t your thing, then the idea of sexting<\/a> might seem a bit silly. But, don\u2019t knock it until you\u2019ve tried it! Remember, laughter is one of the best ways to connect with a partner. So, while you might giggle at each other\u2019s sexting efforts, communicating is never a bad thing.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be sure to ask your partner ahead of time if they\u2019re okay with sending and receiving sexts. Once you\u2019re both on board with the idea, start slowly and build it up from there. The anticipation is sure to work in your favor and bring on a sexy night for you both.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. A new wake-up call<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Most alarm clocks are annoying, so wouldn\u2019t you rather wake up with a smile? To add some extra spice to your relationship, try waking your partner with a few sensual and intimate touches. You\u2019ll want to be sure they\u2019re okay with this first, consent is important<\/a>, even within a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Buy a toy together<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

When it comes to intimate things to do with your partner, sex toys offer a ton of opportunities. Shopping for them together is a fun icebreaker but be sure to do a bit of research beforehand since trying to pick out the best sex toys<\/a> can be a bit overwhelming at first.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you\u2019re out there though, you\u2019ll have a hard time not enjoying yourself during the shopping trip. Sex is all about having fun and enjoying the intimacy of the experience with a partner. Picking out a toy to use together is no different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Leave each other notes<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

This is such a simple yet special intimate thing to do with your partner. Write out a note to tell them how nice they looked when they got ready that morning. Send a cheeky goodnight message<\/a> reminding them how sexy their butt is! Whatever it might be, notes like these help to strengthen connections and build intimacy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Treat yourselves<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Sex with a partner is important and integral to any relationship, but sex with yourself is equally important. Why not incorporate the two and masturbate together? Mutual masturbation can add spice to your sex life with a touch of voyeurism and exhibition rolled into one. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You get to see exactly what your partner desires and do something different in the bedroom together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Just cuddle together<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

When it comes to intimate things to do with your partner, it doesn\u2019t always have to come back to sex. There\u2019s something genuinely special about cuddling up tightly with a partner. It helps to build intimacy and foster a real, meaningful relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whether it\u2019s cuddling up in bed while you fall asleep or snuggling on the sofa with the best romantic movies on Netflix<\/a>, there\u2019s nothing quite like the calming feeling that comes from being held tightly in a partner\u2019s arms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Building Meaningful Relationships: Intimacy is Key<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

We all fall into routines in life. We become comfortable with what we know and that can lead to relationships that feel like a set routine. Trying out different intimate things to do with your partner can not only help to spice up your sex life but also foster a closer connection and build a more meaningful relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important for partners in a relationship to feel they can express themselves and their desires. When you work together to find new ways to strengthen your connection, you\u2019ll ignite a spark that goes well beyond the bedroom and start to build a genuinely good relationship<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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