{"id":348,"date":"2009-09-02T16:33:12","date_gmt":"2009-09-02T23:33:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/about.zoosk.com\/\/?p=348"},"modified":"2021-11-02T06:16:08","modified_gmt":"2021-11-02T13:16:08","slug":"get-noticed-on-dating-sites","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/online-dating\/get-noticed-on-dating-sites\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Simple Tips To Get Noticed On Online Dating Sites"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you\u2019re out on the town, the art of seduction seems relatively straightforward. Basic grooming, eye contact, and physical (even if imaginary) confidence go a long way when trying to catch the eye of that special someone. You\u2019re at a bar, you see someone you like, and after a few drinks you gather up enough courage to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/conversation-starters-for-dating\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/conversation-starters-for-dating\/\">strike up a conversation<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s pretty simple really.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you\u2019re trying to get noticed on online dating sites, however, the whole equation shifts. You don\u2019t have to dress up or take a shower. You can be online while slouched in front of the television, unshowered, wearing a bathrobe with your laptop balanced on a family-size bowl of Doritos, and you might be just as irresistible in this context\u2014alone, at home, stuffing your face in front of the computer\u2014as you are while dressed to the nines in swanky club. In a lot of ways, online dating presents far less pressure than dating IRL (\u2018in real life\u2019). You don\u2019t have to buy new clothes, you don\u2019t have to put effort into looking good for someone else, and you don\u2019t have to worry about what anyone is going to think. You can relax and just be yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But even for the experienced, online dating is far from being a walk in the park. Online dating presents its own unique challenges. Like, how are you going to get someone to notice you, when you\u2019re online, without relying on the same tricks that used to get people to notice you in real life? There are many ways to get noticed online, and they\u2019re as easy and simple as lifting your finger off the keyboard and hitting a few keys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To increase your profile views and get more messages, follow these simple tips:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><b>Turn your flabby, out-of-shape dating profile into a lean, mean, attracting machine.<br>\n<\/b>Trust me, people <i>do<\/i> notice your profile. Is it properly filled out? Is it specific? Do you have enough relevant information in your descriptions? Are you representing yourself honestly? Did you remember to fill out your interests, including your favorite music and movies? Take a little time and write something about yourself. Even if it\u2019s just a few words about your interests or where you are in your life, it\u2019s gives people a better idea of who you are and what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><b>Make sweet sweet love to the camera.<br>\n<\/b>You need photos. How are you going to attract anyone with a gray, faceless avatar? Unless they have a serious thing for faceless avatars (and nobody does) there is no way anyone is going to contact you for a date without a photo. In fact, according to the online dating site <a href=\"https:\/\/ad.doubleclick.net\/ddm\/clk\/306955822;126561327;i\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Zoosk<\/a>, people with three or more photos on their dating profile tend to get more messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><b>View as many profiles as you can.<br>\n<\/b>Most dating sites allow people to see who\u2019s viewed them. That means even if you don\u2019t directly message someone, they can still get a sense of your interest since they know you\u2019re checking them out. If you\u2019re shy about messaging, or maybe just don\u2019t have the time, viewing a lot of people can help you reach out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><b>Take advantage of emoticons.<br>\n<\/b>If you\u2019re interested in someone but aren\u2019t at the point where you want to send them a direct message, why not do the easy thing and send an emoticon? Most dating site have their own way of winking or smiling at someone, but you can always type out your own emoticon too. Winking is kind of hard to do smoothly in real life (sometimes, you try to wink and it gets confused for an odd facial tic) but luckily, it\u2019s much easier to accomplish online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><b>Carpe diem.<br>\n<\/b>Indirect methods of flirtation are always an option to help you get noticed. But if you\u2019re the more adventurous type, the best way to get someone\u2019s attention online is to write them a message. So go for it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">More than anything, don\u2019t be afraid to put yourself out there! One of the main benefits of getting noticed on online dating sites is that it makes it easier to be outgoing. Going up to someone in public or a bar can be daunting or feel aggressive. Sending someone a message on an online dating site is just part of how it works. So go out there and make it work for you!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To increase your profile views and get more messages, follow these simple tips. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":12103,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[888,980],"tags":[395],"class_list":["post-348","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-online-dating","category-online-dating-tips","tag-online"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Get Noticed On Online Dating Sites: 5 Simple Tips<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Want to stand out while looking for love online? 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