You’ve started dating someone new, and you really like her. Now, you just want to ensure she\u2019s the one for you. Make the right call by looking out for these 10 dating red flags:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. She only talks about herself.<\/strong> 2. She often talks about previous relationships or other men. 3. She exhibits control or jealousy issues.<\/strong> 4. She needs constant reassurance.<\/strong> 5. She puts you down.<\/strong> 6. She isn\u2019t happy without you.<\/strong> 7. She doesn’t have her own interests.<\/strong> 8. She has dramatic mood swings.<\/strong> 9. She talks about everyone behind their back.<\/strong> 10. She tries to change you.<\/strong> Nick is a professional dating coach in Boston. He helps his clients be more social and confident to create healthy, powerful romantic connections. You can connect with Nick and read his advice on The Dating Specialist.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Identify the warning signs sooner rather than later.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":11982,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[885],"tags":[760],"class_list":["post-5166","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-advice-men","tag-men"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
\nThe initial stages of dating are about getting to know each other. She should be excited to find out who you are and what your life is like. If she doesn\u2019t show genuine interest in you, find someone who does.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n<\/strong>Unless you\u2019re in an exclusive relationship, she has the right to see other people. But, she shouldn\u2019t be pining over a former boyfriend or telling you about guys she\u2019s currently dating. That means she\u2019s still hung up on someone or is trying to make you jealous.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nShe shouldn\u2019t guilt you about seeing your friends–or check up on you when you’re doing so. It\u2019s not fair for her to act cold, upset, or lash out if you’ve made plans with other people. You\u2019re a person, not a possession.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nDoes she keep asking if you actually like her, want to see her, and are having fun with her? We all want that reinforcement sometimes, but if she\u2019s endlessly seeking your approval, she might have some self-esteem issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nA quality woman is encouraging and supportive. She wants you to pursue your passions and invest in your hobbies. She shouldn\u2019t make fun of you or your interests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nIt\u2019s a bad sign when a woman says she had nothing before you came along. If you’re hearing this, she needs to work through her problems before having a healthy relationship with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nIf shes doesn’t have her own interests, you may become responsible for her happiness. This isn’t fair to you. Your relationship should be a partnership, not a co-dependent situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nUnless something tragic has happened, she shouldn\u2019t be happy one minute and hysterical the next. Hormones cause some fluctuation, but daily emotional instability is a serious issue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nSometimes we make judgments about others, especially when bonding with new people, but a woman who repeatedly gossips about everyone is insecure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nA good partner wants their significant other to grow. She should be an advocate for positive improvements such as working on your communications skills, upgrading your wardrobe, or getting rid of bad habits like biting your nails. She shouldn\u2019t aim to change your hobbies, values, or friends to fit her ideals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n