{"id":6394,"date":"2014-10-20T06:43:27","date_gmt":"2014-10-20T13:43:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/about.zoosk.com\/en\/?p=6394"},"modified":"2021-06-01T00:21:53","modified_gmt":"2021-06-01T07:21:53","slug":"stale-relationships-5-reasons-to-break-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/relationship-advice\/relationship-problems\/stale-relationships-5-reasons-to-break-up\/","title":{"rendered":"Stale Relationships: 5 Reasons to Break Up"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>If you&#8217;ve been trying to build some real connections\u2014romantic or otherwise\u2014and feel isolated despite your best efforts, it might be time for a change of scenery. Here are five reasons to break up that are signs&nbsp;you might be ready to move on for the sake of developing new relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. Fair-Weather Friends<\/strong><br>\nYou\u2019ve got a group of friends who are fun to be around and happy to join you for a good time, but is there someone you can call when things fall apart? Evaluate your friendships and think about who you\u2019d rely on if you were in a difficult situation. If the list is too short, perhaps it\u2019s time to&nbsp;branch out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. Consistent Loneliness<\/strong><br>\nThere\u2019s a difference between being alone and being lonely. If you&#8217;re enduring painful stretches of loneliness, it&#8217;s probably time for some new scenery.&nbsp;Moving to a new town might be lonely at first, too. But in discovering new places, you can also make new connections with people who are looking for the same things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. Limited Resources<\/strong><br>\nIf you come from a smaller town or city, you know what it&#8217;s like for everyone to know your name\u2014and that might not always be a good thing. Sometimes seeing all the same faces in all the same places gets&nbsp;stale, especially if you&#8217;re looking for romance. Agreeing to go on a blind date with someone only to discover you\u2019ve been out with him before (and it didn\u2019t work out) might be a sign that you\u2019re in need of a fresh dating pool.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. Serious Heartache<\/strong><br>\nSometimes a failed relationship can leave marks not only on your heart, but everywhere around you. That coffee shop reminds you of him. That restaurant will always been the restaurant where she told you she loved you. That park is the park where you shared your first kiss. If you can\u2019t seem to escape the pain of the breakup after a long period of time, start packing. There\u2019s nothing like a new place, a new city, and a whole new life to help you get over the hurdle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5. A Gamble on Love<\/strong><br>\nMaybe you met someone who\u2019s from another town\u2014be it 45 minutes away or across the country and there&#8217;s something about this person you just can&#8217;t resist. Maybe any one of the previous four signs applies to you and you don\u2019t have a lot to lose by leaving it all behind. Or, maybe you have everything to lose, but this person is just that special. If the feelings are mutual, it might be time to take a leap. Sometimes&nbsp;following your heart to a new city is a gamble that truly pays off in the end.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It might be time to move on if any of these signs sound familiar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":62,"featured_media":12153,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[983,998,898],"tags":[760,783,589],"class_list":["post-6394","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-breaking-up","category-break-up","category-relationship-problems","tag-men","tag-problems","tag-women"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Stale Relationships: 5 Reasons to Break Up<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"It&#039;s hard to pick up your life and move on, but sometimes it&#039;s the best decision to make. 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