{"id":7631,"date":"2015-03-18T12:17:54","date_gmt":"2015-03-18T19:17:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/about.zoosk.com\/en\/?p=7631"},"modified":"2024-06-28T03:13:39","modified_gmt":"2024-06-28T10:13:39","slug":"advice-when-do-i-make-a-move","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zoosk.com\/date-mix\/dating-advice\/dating-advice-men\/advice-when-do-i-make-a-move\/","title":{"rendered":"Help: When Do I Make a Move?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>Dear Joan,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Date is going well. Can&#8217;t tell if she&#8217;s friendly or if it&#8217;s&nbsp;more. Should I go in for the kiss? If yes, when do I make a move?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>-#KissDeGurl<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unlike approaching a woman, deciding when to make a move requires some intel.&nbsp;It gets a little tricky because you&#8217;ll need to rely on signals instead of directions,&nbsp;so I want you to watch for visual, verbal, and physical cues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Visual<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Is she smiling a lot are you getting lots of eye contact? I hope so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Verbal<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Is she talking about future plans with you? Are you getting lots of compliments\u2014all good signs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Physical<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Is she touching you? If so, you\u2019re golden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re getting one or any combination of these signals, test the waters by leaning in. If she responds in kind then go ahead and make your move with confidence.&nbsp;If you act shy or embarrassed when you kiss your date, she\u2019s going to feel weird about it too. So, kiss her with confidence and call it a night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting physical with someone and getting to know someone take time, but when you\u2019re focused on the long game, there\u2019s no rush.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Still confused? Watch and learn.<\/strong><br>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Y2aqIRTBtZA?list=PLk6sFoNnb27ypGKBjQShsoKeRZ5qjMB0v\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Use these signs as your cue that the time is right. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":11888,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[885],"tags":[759,768,760,566],"class_list":["post-7631","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-advice-men","tag-hetero","tag-joanactually","tag-men","tag-video"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Help: When Do I Make a Move?<\/title>\n<meta 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