Shani Jay

Bestselling Author and Empowerment Coach

Shani is a bestselling author, empowerment coach for women, and self-love advocate. She is the author of Bloom, The Babe Bible, Glow Getter, and Light Up Your Life; and her writing has been featured on many internationally recognized platforms including The Huffington Post, Thought Catalog, and Teen Vogue.

In 2016 Shani founded The Glow Getter Tribe – a self-love & kindness movement which helps young girls & women worldwide feel happy, confident and beautiful starting from the inside, out.

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29 Fun and Simple Ways to Be More Romantic

If you’re in need of some tips when it comes to upping the romance in your life, then check out this list.

A woman who was thinking of giving up on love, sitting in front of a red wall thinking about how she feels.

6 Tips for Anyone Who Feels Like Giving Up on Love

If you’ve had a tough time when it comes to love, and are thinking about giving up on it altogether—wait a moment.

A woman who's divorcing a narcissist looking stressed out and upset.

What to Expect When Divorcing a Narcissist

A narcissistic person can make an already difficult situation ten times harder.

A woman who's wondering, "Why do you love me?" holding hands by a lake with her partner who's telling her just that.

Why Do You Love Me? Heartfelt Ways to Answer the Question

If you’re not great at showing your feelings, here are some ways to show your partner how much you adore them.

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8 Things That Change When You’re Dating Over 60

Dating isn’t just for the twenty and thirty somethings out there.

A couple at a table using one of these conversation starters for dating to chat about while they sip coffee.

70 Conversation Starters for Dating Online or Off

Try some of these out next time you’re talking to someone new, and see where they take you.

A woman who listened to these important dating tips for women, smiling and laughing before kissing her boyfriend on the beach.

8 Dating Tips for Women You’ve Probably Never Heard

With so many changes in how we date and interact with each other, what do you really need to know when it comes to dating?

A man who thought he wasn't a natural flirt, smiling at a girl on his shoulders who's smiling back at him.

How to Be a More Natural Flirt

Unfortunately, we’re not all natural born flirts.

A guy who learned how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend talking to his girlfriend at the beach.

How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend: Tips on What to Say

Don’t worry—take a deep breath, and read these tips on exactly what you need to say.

A woman who learned how to tell him you love him, hugging her boyfriend and looking into his eyes before kissing him.

How to Tell Him You Love Him: 8 Different Ways

Here’s how to tell him you love him, without using those three little words.

A woman who learned that sometimes you have to let go, standing in the forest with her eyes closed breathing in the fresh air.

Why Sometimes You Have to Let Go to Move On

Once you let go, it will create space in your life for something better. But this can only happen if you choose it.

A couple in a serious relationship smiling and laughing with each other.

Serious Relationship vs Just Dating: What’s the Real Difference

Check in if you don’t know where you stand, because you deserve to.