Shani Jay

Bestselling Author and Empowerment Coach

Shani is a bestselling author, empowerment coach for women, and self-love advocate. She is the author of Bloom, The Babe Bible, Glow Getter, and Light Up Your Life; and her writing has been featured on many internationally recognized platforms including The Huffington Post, Thought Catalog, and Teen Vogue.

In 2016 Shani founded The Glow Getter Tribe – a self-love & kindness movement which helps young girls & women worldwide feel happy, confident and beautiful starting from the inside, out.

How to Let Go Of Someone You Love

If the love was real, it’s never going to be easy.

Dating Advice From a Lady to All The Single Short Guys Out There

Some women won’t be into it, but some will.

Online Dating Scams: More Things Scammers Will Say to Trick You

The number of scammers out there is at an all time high. Here’s what to be aware of.

How to Use Bumble If You’ve Never Used a Dating App

If you’ve never used a dating app, there can be a bit of a learning curve.

8 Things Most People Get Wrong About the True Definition of Love

True love is not the examples we see in popular movies and books.

A woman in a toxic relationship sitting on the end of her bed with her head in her hands while her boyfriend is in the background looking upset.

6 Reasons It Takes so Long to Realize You’re in a Toxic Relationship

You might think that only weak, insecure people end up in toxic relationships, but even strong people can find themselves in one.

A couple in a good relationship smiling and laughing with their dog.

Not Sure What a Good Relationship Looks Like? Here It Is

If you haven’t seen one before, they can be hard to spot. Here’s what makes a good relationship thrive.

A guy standing outside looking cool in his sunglasses, who shows some of the signs of a player.

7 Early Signs He’s a Player

There are early signs you can watch out for.

A woman who's wondering how do you know you love someone, kissing her boyfriend and wondering.

How Do You Know You Love Someone? 7 Ways To Tell

Are they the first person you want to talk to when you get good news?

Two happy people who never settled in love, jumping in front of a colorful wall.

The Real Reason You Should Never Settle In Love or Life

Why settle for mediocre? You deserve extraordinary.

A couple who knows how to have good communication in relationships smiling and laughing outside as they hug.

Communication in Relationships: How To Improve Yours

The great thing is, anyone can be a great communicator—it just requires some time, energy, and focus.

Two friends hanging out and smiling while sitting together outside.

6 Ways Our Friends Make Us Stronger, Better People

This is the power of incredible friendships.