Shani Jay

Bestselling Author and Empowerment Coach

Shani is a bestselling author, empowerment coach for women, and self-love advocate. She is the author of Bloom, The Babe Bible, Glow Getter, and Light Up Your Life; and her writing has been featured on many internationally recognized platforms including The Huffington Post, Thought Catalog, and Teen Vogue.

In 2016 Shani founded The Glow Getter Tribe – a self-love & kindness movement which helps young girls & women worldwide feel happy, confident and beautiful starting from the inside, out.

A woman in a toxic relationship sitting on the end of her bed with her head in her hands while her boyfriend is in the background looking upset.

6 Reasons It Takes so Long to Realize You’re in a Toxic Relationship

You might think that only weak, insecure people end up in toxic relationships, but even strong people can find themselves in one.

A couple in a good relationship smiling and laughing with their dog.

Not Sure What a Good Relationship Looks Like? Here It Is

If you haven’t seen one before, they can be hard to spot. Here’s what makes a good relationship thrive.

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7 Early Signs He’s a Player

There are early signs you can watch out for.

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How Do You Know You Love Someone? 7 Ways To Tell

Are they the first person you want to talk to when you get good news?

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The Real Reason You Should Never Settle In Love or Life

Why settle for mediocre? You deserve extraordinary.

A couple who knows how to have good communication in relationships smiling and laughing outside as they hug.

Communication in Relationships: How To Improve Yours

The great thing is, anyone can be a great communicator—it just requires some time, energy, and focus.

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6 Ways Our Friends Make Us Stronger, Better People

This is the power of incredible friendships.

A couple who's thinking about becoming exclusive having dinner together.

8 Things to Talk About Before Becoming Exclusive

Knowing how to communicate about important issues now, will set you up for a long and fulfilling relationship in the future.

A couple sitting on a park bench.

7 Reasons You Go Back to Someone Even When You Know You Deserve Better

It’s hard to let go of someone, when you’re so used to being with them.

A man who has a fear of commitment sitting outside leaning against a window with her girlfriend as they have a discussion.

How to Understand Your Fear of Commitment

The causes of commitment fears and how they can manifest themselves in your relationships.

A man who's seen the signs that it's time to break up thinking and looking stressed out a window.

7 Signs It Might Be Time to Break Up

Making the decision to end any relationship, regardless of how long you’ve been together, is a difficult one.

A woman who learned to love yourself first, smiling and laughing at the sky.

7 Things That Happen When You Love Yourself First

Loving yourself is a lifelong journey, because we never step learning. But it’s worth it.