Are you wondering if the guy you’re interested in likes you too? We all wonder this after a first or second date. And it’s hard to know! (Am I right ladies?) Well, I’m here to help you answer those questions you continue to ask yourself after that second or third date with someone special. Men certainly have their own language that they use to show that they like you. There are always signs a man gives that he likes you, even if it’s the smallest gesture he’ll find ways to show your how much he cares about you. So let me share four things that men do that can help you know if he likes you. Remember you are a fantastic woman!
Here are the four signs that he likes you to watch out for:
Sign #1: He texts you in the morning.
If a guy likes you, he will pretty much drop line after line on your iPhone after only your second date. This usually means he’s interested in you and wants to meet up for dinner or drinks. It goes something like this: After his first text, you text him back confirming that Wednesday is the best day for you to meet for lunch this week. Then he texts you again in the afternoon during lunch to see how your day is coming along after dinner plans have been set. Later he texts you again to ask if you’ve started to watch season two of Stranger Things. Not a bad way at all to start a conversation and a great sign that he likes you.
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Sign #2: pri·or·i·ty
The fact or condition of being regarded or treated as more important.
1. This special someone may stand at the door upon your arrival to the restaurant.
2. He offers to pay for dinner when it’s time to close out that tab he opened with his Chase Sapphire card.
3. He lets you choose which movie you want to stream on Netflix, Hulu, HBOGo, and AppleTV.
4. He makes plans with you on the weekend and even lets you select the brunch spot of your choice.
5. He sends smiling emojis to your phone after you text him back saying you had a great time last night.
Basically, he lets you know that he’s putting you first.
Sign #3: He goes out of his way to impress you.
After four dates and lots of texts, gifs, screenshots, the guy you’re into manages to secure a Saturday night date and he makes dinner for you at his place. This is a big deal. He’s awaiting your arrival at the front door. It must be a sign he’s excited to see you. He kisses you on the lips with his arms wrapped around your shoulders. He even says he’s excited to see you and also tells you he bought white and red wine for you because the choice is all yours. And so you choose the red wine, which is entirely out of your comfort zone. (After all you are a rosé girl at heart.)
Any guy who buys more then two different types of wine is a smart guy period, and wants to impress you and show you how confident and comfortable he is to be around you.
Sign #4: They value your opinions and insights.
When a guy really likes you, he values your opinion and wants to know more about you. Ladies, I’m sure you’ve been caught off guard when these questions have been asked. But they can be a real sign he’s interested in you. Questions he may ask you are:
1. Basketball or baseball?
2. What are you working on at work?
3. What gym do you go to?
4. How do you feel about the season 7 finale of Game of Thrones?
Any time you’re starting something new with someone you’re really interested in, it can be a bit nerve-wracking. It’s fun to look for signs that he likes you but don’t forget to send him some signals too!