A couple holding hands on the state line.

Whether you’re a transplant or a homebody, your location influences the way you find love online. To learn how, we studied profiles and messaging trends from over six million Zoosk singles across the country.

To compare how different states look for love, we compared how likely the residents are to approach certain dating behaviors. So, if you feel like your messages aren’t getting answered, you might be living in a state that takes the ‘hard to get’ approach to heart. If you’re feeling like you’re getting a lot of extra attention, your state might be extra flirty.

Read below to find out if you date like a local, a visitor, or a hybrid of your hometown and your new city.


Joan Actually

Dating Expert

Joan is a writer and dating expert.