How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You (Be You!)

young couple in love and holding each other at the beach

So, you’ve met the person of your dreams and you’re waiting for them to say those three special words that everyone longs to hear. We’ve all been there and it can be emotionally draining when you’re wondering if your crush is ever going to say “I love you.”

But don’t despair, we are here to help! Here’s how to make someone fall in love with you! From making them feel special to building trust in your relationship, there are plenty of ways to get that special someone to fall for you. 

So, how to make someone fall in love with you?

Be real

When you have real and authentic conversations with your partner, it builds emotional intimacy. You don’t need to spend hours talking about your most embarrassing moments but when you’re vulnerable with that special someone, it helps to bring you closer together.

When you open up, they’ll feel safe enough to share their flaws with you and your relationship will be strengthened as a result. So next time you’re hanging out with your crush, tell them about one of your quirks and see how it goes. You deserve to be with someone who loves you for who you really are.

Spend time together

Put your phone on silent, remove all distractions and spend quality time with your partner. Be attentive and listen closely to what they have to say. This is your chance to get to know them better so that they’ll see how much you care.

This may seem obvious but with the distractions of our busy lives, we’re usually in too much of a rush to slow down and connect. The chances of them falling in love with you increase when you spend more time together.

Get out of your comfort zone

Are you stuck in the same routine? Rather than eating at the same old restaurant for dinner or watching a movie at home, get out there and do something exciting together. New activities boost oxytocin levels and get sparks flying between you and your crush.

Plan a romantic weekend getaway or do something adventurous. If you’re feeling brave you can try rock climbing or bungee jumping as a fun couple’s activity. A challenging hike or rollercoaster ride can also boost the connection that you have with your partner. 

Make them feel special

When it comes to knowing how to make someone fall in love with you, understanding their love language is key. Try giving that special someone small gifts or using words of affirmation to let them know how much you care. Offering them support when they need it and increasing physical touch can also strengthen your bond.

When your partner feels appreciated and emotionally connected to you, it’s easier to take your relationship to the next level. Not only will this give your partner the nudge they need to say “I love you”, but it’ll also help to make your relationship last.

Let them get to know you

Share your passions and interests with your crush and let them get to know you better. Your favorite activities are what make you interesting and it’s enjoyable to be around someone who loves life. Return the favor by showing that special someone that you’re interested in their hobbies too.

Ask them questions about what they enjoy doing and pay attention when they give you the answer. You don’t have to like doing the same things to get along, but it helps to find things that you have in common. Discover activities that you both enjoy, then get out there and do them.

Build trust

A trusting relationship makes it easier for your crush to let their guard down and say the words you long to hear. Trust is built over time in the small moments that you share. If your partner tells you something confidential, don’t repeat it to others.

It goes without saying that you shouldn’t sneak around behind your partner’s back or lie to them. Show your partner that you trust them and give them the space to pursue their own interests. Keep your promises and honor the commitments that you’ve agreed to in your relationship. 

Be ready for a relationship

If you’re still obsessing over your ex or you’re too hurt from a past relationship to open up, it can be a barrier to finding love in the present moment. Your emotional unavailability makes it hard for your partner to get closer to you.

Take the time to heal and work through your past hurts so that you’re ready for commitment when you meet that special someone. It’s also worth taking the time to check that you have the same relationship goals. If they’re only looking for a casual fling, you’re wasting your time by waiting for them to tell you that they love you.

Now that you know how to make someone fall in love with you, get out there and take your relationship to the next level.

Jenna-Lee Strugnell

Jenna-Lee Strugnell has been in love with writing for as long as she can remember. She started writing when she was globe-trotting ten years ago and has continued ever since. With a Degree in Psychology and a Masters that explores what it means to be a man in today’s world, she has focused her attention on writing about relationships. In her time off, she runs workshops that use storytelling as a catalyst for healing in under-resourced communities.


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