Moving on songs are necessary, sometimes. Once, while having a hard time with a particularly painful breakup, I stood at the edge of a party gripping my beer and talking with a friend. “I’m just not getting over this,” I said to him. “When will I get over this?” (My friend was older than me and had been through a few legendary breakups of his own.) And I’ll never forget his response. “Never,” he said. “You never get over it.”
Needless to say, that wasn’t the answer I was looking for. But sometimes, when you’re in the middle of something painful and hard, it can feel like it will last forever. I was simply at that stage where it felt like I would never move past the end of this thing that had become such a huge part of my life and who I was. Luckily, I had a friend who could relate. And even though his answer was colossally disheartening, it helped to know that I wasn’t the only person who had ever felt that way.
It’s this same idea that makes moving on songs so completely necessary. No matter how you happen to be feeling at the time—sad, lonely, rage-filled, conflicted, or only somewhat melancholy—it helps to know that you’re not alone, that your pain is both personal and universal. And, ya, I think it’s safe to admit, that sometimes you just need to live (and wallow) in the painful moment you’re in too.
So to help you get through your breakup, I’ve compiled the ultimate list of moving on songs (with a little help from friends, the internet, and personal experience) for every stage of your breakup. From the early shock and denial, to the inevitable anger and the eventual acceptance, there are songs about moving on to help you get through each stage of your breakup and onto the next one.
Moving On Songs: The Full Playlist
Stage 1: Initial Pain and Suffering
- Bye Bye Love, Everly Brothers
- I Just Don’t Know What to Do with Myself, The White Stripes
- How to Disappear Completely, Radiohead
- I Can’t Make You Love Me, Bonnie Raitt
- Fucked Me Right Up, Sean Hayes
- I’d Rather Go Blind, Etta James
- Where Does the Good Go, Tegan and Sara
- These Four Words, The Maine
- Un-break My Heart, Tony Braxton
- You Were Mine, Dixie Chicks
- Come Pick Me Up, Ryan Adams
- Your Love Is Killing Me, Sharon Van Etten
- Crown of Love, Arcade Fire
- There Stands the Glass, Ted Hawkins
- Please Bleed, Ben Harper
- Forever Blue, Chris Issak
Stage 2: Loneliness
- (I Don’t Have) Anymore Love Songs, Hank Williams, Jr.
- The World Has Turned and Left Me Here, Weezer
- I Aint Got Nobody, Bessie Smith
- Dancing On My Own, Robyn
- I’m So Lonesome I Could Cry, Hank Williams
- Broken Down, Eric Clapton
- Empty Hearts, Alison Kraus
- Terrible Love, The National
- I Eat Dinner (When the Hunger’s Gone), Rufus Wainwright
- Me and My Shadow, Peggy Lee
- Deep Inside of You, Third Eye Blind
- The District Sleeps Alone Tonight, The Postal Service
- Empty Chairs, Don McLean
- Katy Song, Red House Painters
- Jeff Buckley, Hallelujah
- To Build A Home, The Cinematic Orchestra
Stage 3: Remorse and Nostalgia
- Hope She’ll Be Happier, Bill Withers
- Shiver, Lucy Rose
- Nothing Compares 2 U, Sinead O’Connor
- It Must Have Been Love, Roxette
- Pictures of You, The Cure
- Used to Love You, Gwen Stefani
- A Case Of You, Joni Mitchell
- Song Cry, Jay Z
- Walk Away, Ben Harper
- I Wonder Do You Think of Me, Keith Whitley
- Who’s Loving You, The Jackson Five
- I Was Gonna Marry You, Tristan Prettyman
- Blue Valentines, Tom Waits
- Goodbye My Lover, James Blunt
- Dust in the Wind, Kansas
- Samson, Regina Spektor
Stage 5: Simply Missing the Other Person
- Sometime Around Midnight, The Airborne Toxic Event
- Small Hands, Keaton Henson
- I Will Always Love You, Whitney Houston
- Good Woman, Cat Power
- Pain In My Heart, Otis Redding
- Another Lonesome Morning, Emmylou Harris
- Kiss, Korn
- Can’t Stand Losing You, The Police
- Stick In the Mud, The Jayhawks
- Maps, Yeah Yeah Yeahs
- Useless Desires, Patty Griffin
- Hello, Adele
- Unchained Melody, The Righteous Brothers
- Something I Can Never Have, Nine Inch Nails
- Fire and Rain, James Taylor
- I Want You, Bob Dylan
Stage 6: Feeling Like You’re Never Going to Get Over This
- Back to Black, Amy Winehouse
- Nothin’ In the World Can Stop Me From Worryin’ ‘Bout That Girl, The Kinks
- Immortal, Evanescence
- I Fall To Pieces, Patsy Cline
- I Don’t Want To Get Over You, The Magnetic Fields
- Good Morning Heartache, Billie Holiday
- End of the Road, Boys II Men
- How Can You Mend a Broken Heart, Al Green
- Not Over You, Gavin DeGraw
- Here Come Those Tears Again, Jackson Browne
- The Man Who Can’t Be Moved, The Script
- Crying, Roy Orbison
- Black, Pearl Jam
- Outta My Head, Liz Longley
- Before I’m Over You, Loretta Lynn
- Another Love, Tom Odell
Stage 7: Conflicted
- Pale Blue Eyes, The Velvet Underground
- The Blower’s Daughter, Damien Rice
- We Can’t Be Friends, Lorene Scafaria
- Ex-Factor, Lauren Hill
- Wish You Were Here, Pink Floyd
- Stone Cold, Demi Lavato
- I Hate Everything About You, Three Days Grace
- Girlfriend in a Comma, The Smiths
- Burning House, Cam
- Glycerine, Bush
- Crying Game, Nicki Minaj (featuring Jessie Ware)
- In the Sun, Joseph Arthur
- Last Goodbye, Jeff Buckley
- Lies, Marina and the Diamonds
- It’s All About Us, The American Analog Set
- Love Interruption, Jack White
Stage 8: Feeling Foolish and Stupid
- So Alone, Johnny Thunders
- Biggest Mistake, The Rolling Stones
- I’m a Fool to Want You, Billie Holiday
- Far From Me, Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds
- Heaven Knows I’m Miserable Now, The Smiths
- Creep, Radiohead
- I Was a Fool, Tegan and Sara
- Hurt, Christina Aguilera
- Beware the Dog, The Griswolds
- On My Own, Samantha Barks (From Les Mis)
- Once Is Enough, Lyle Lovett
- Little Lion Man, Mumford and Sons
- Almost Lover, A Fine Frenzy
- Forever Doesn’t Last Too Long, Jazmine Sullivan
- Yesterday, The Beatles
- Say Something, A Great Big World (featuring Christina Aguilera)
Stage 9: Anger with a Little Crazy Mixed In
- Say It to Me Now, Glen Hansard (from Once)
- Song for the Dumped, Ben Folds Five
- I Don’t F’ck With You, Big Sean
- Backstreets, Bruce Springsteen
- You’re So Vain, Carly Simon
- Rolling in the Deep, Adele
- Dickhead, Kate Nash
- Wish Me Well (You Can Go to Hell), Bouncing Souls
- You Oughta Know, Alanis Morissette
- F’ck You, Cee-Lo Green
- You Suck, Murmurs
- Blue Monday, New Order
- Unf’cktheworld, Angel Olsen
- Mama’s Broken Heart, Miranda Lambert
- The Calendar Hung Itself, Bright Eyes
- Hurt, Nine Inch Nails
Stage 10: Apathy
- Don’t Think Twice, Bob Dylan
- Get Gone, Fiona Apple
- Ballad of Big Nothing, Elliott Smith
- Ex-Girl to the Next Girl, Gang Starr
- Your Ex-Lover Is Dead, Stars
- Go Your Own Way, Fleetwood Mac
- (I Don’t Have) Anymore Love Songs, Hank Williams, Jr.
- F’ck It (I Don’t Want You Back), Eamon
- Used to Love Her, Guns N’ Roses
- Lost Cause, Beck
- Cry Me a River, Justin Timberlake
- All My Love Is Gone, Lyle Lovett
- Gone for Good, The Shins
- It’s Not Right But It’s OK, Whitney Houston
- Problem, Ariana Grande (Featuring Iggy Azalea)
- It Aint Me Babe, Johnny Cash and June Carter
Stage 11: Thinking Of Giving Up On Love Altogether
- How Fucking Romantic, The Magnetic Fields
- Never Gonna Love Again, Lykke Li
- I Am a Rock, Simon & Garfunkel
- Never Fall In Love Again, Dionne Warwick
- I Never Will Marry, Loretta Lynn
- A Single Woman, Nina Simone
- Lonely Stranger, Eric Clapton
- Mean Old World, Sam Cooke
- Better As a Memory, Kenny Chesney
- Solitude, Billie Holiday
- Keep Yourself Warm, Frightened Rabbit
- Cleopatra, The Lumineers
- Solitary Man, Neil Diamond
- You Can’t Put Your Arms Around A Memory, Johnny Thunders
- Anywhere I Lay My Head, Tom Waits
- A Man/Me/Then Jim, Rilo Kelly
Stage 12: Feeling Like You’ll Be Better One Day (Just Not Today)
- Every Day I Love You Less and Less, Kaiser Chiefs
- I Get Along Without You Very Well (Except Sometimes), Nina Simone
- Keep Breathing, Ingrid Michaelson
- Windows, Angle Olsen
- Gonna Get Over You, Sara Bareilles
- Try and Love Again, The Eagles
- Trouble, Cat Stevens
- Let It Rain, Brendan James
- A Little Bit Stronger, Sara Evans
- Trouble, The Jayhawks
- It’s So Hard, John Lennon
- California, Delta Spirit
- Broken Heart, Eddie Vedder
- Better In Time, Leona Lewis
- Let Go, Frou Frou
- Red Rubber Ball, The Cyrkle
Stage 13: Growing Stronger
- Shut Up and Let Me Go, The Ting Tings
- Already Gone, The Eagles
- I’ll Slip Away, Sixto Rodriguez
- Is That All You Got for Me, The Donnas
- Since You Been Gone, Kelly Clarkson
- I’m Still Standing, Elton John
- Never Going Back Again, Fleetwood Mac
- Fighter, Christina Aguilera
- Roar, Katy Perry
- Dancing With Myself, Billy Idol
- I Will Survive, Gloria Gaynor
- You Don’t Send Me, Bell & Sebastian
- New Attitude, Patti LaBelle
- Fight Song, Rachel Platten
- Survivor, Destiny’s Child
- Landed, Ben Folds
Stage 14: Bittersweet Reflection
- All Things Must Pass, George Harrison
- In the End, Ida Maria
- Stubborn Love, The Lumineers
- A Kiss, A Thrill and Goodbye, Jackie Wilson
- Fountain of Sorrow, Jackson Browne
- One Thing, Finger Eleven
- Taxi, Harry Chapin
- Mr. And Mrs. Used to Be, Loretta Lynn and Ernest Tubb
- Go Places, The New Pornographers
- Wonderful, Lianne La Havas
- In My Life, The Beatles
- What Might Have Been, Little Texas
- Graceland, Paul Simon
- Poison & Wine, The Civil Wars
- Sweet Disposition, The Temper Trap
- If You See Her, Say Hello, Bob Dylan
Stage 15: Hopeful About Loving Again
- Blue Skies, Noah and the Whale
- Believe, Cher
- Here Comes the Sun, The Beatles
- Hold On, Wilson Phillips
- This Will Be Our Year, The Zombies
- Faith, George Michael
- Shake It Out, Florence and the Machine
- What a Wonderful World, Lois Armstrong
- You Can’t Hurry Love, The Supremes
- Love Will Come to You, Indigo Girls
- Don’t Stop Believin’, Journey
- Running on Faith, Eric Clapton
- Carry On, Crosby, Stills, and Nash
- Lust for Life, Iggy Pop
- Feeling Good, Nina Simone
- Somebody to Love, Queen
Hopefully, one or several of these moving on songs will have really struck a chord. Good luck! You’re doing great – now keep going.