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Subtle And Seductive Text Messages For Him

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Subtle and seductive text messages for him are a great way to keep a relationship fun and relaxed. While dating can be nerve-wracking and stressful, there’s no denying that flirting is exciting. Especially when you and your new or potential partner are really on the same vibe. Of course, you probably don’t want to come on too strong with the seduction and run the risk of moving things too fast. That’s why subtlety is key.

So, what options do you have to send to your latest match to keep the conversation fun and flirty, but still leave some things to the imagination? To get you started, we’ve put together some subtle and seductive text messages for him that you can try that might help to incentivize him to plan an IRL date!

39 Subtle and Seductive Text Messages for Him to Keep Things Fun and Flirty

1. I can’t stop thinking about last night…

2. Just got out of the shower and you popped into my mind…what are you up to?

3. I had a dream about you last night.

4. You looked really sexy in my dreams last night.

5. Good morning. Woke up with you on my mind. 

6. I can’t get your [insert body part here] out of my mind.

7. I can’t get my mind out of the gutter today and I think it’s your fault.

8. Knowing I’m going to see you tonight has made me very unproductive at work today.

9. Your [insert personal quality that may not normally be associated with sexiness here] is so sexy to me. (E.g.: obsession with finding the best coffee, hustler mindset, voice on the phone, interior design skills)

10. This song kinda reminds me of you [insert link to the song here]. 

11. I’m sorry you’re having a stressful day, wanna come over tonight and I’ll make it all better? 

12. You’ve worked so hard today. Let me help you relax tonight. 

13. Just got back from happy hour and I’m tipsy enough to tell you that I wish your hands were on me right now. 

14. Kinda wanna call in sick tomorrow and just stay in bed with you all day. 

15. I just got some new lingerie and need someone to show it to, want to see?

16. Wanna watch a scary movie so I have an excuse to crawl into your lap?

17. I just moved into my new apartment and I think you need to come help me break it in 😉

18. I think I might “forget” to wear panties to dinner tonight.

19. You should wear your new shirt to dinner tonight. It’s so cute on you. 

20. I’m thinking of you today and it’s got me all distracted.

21. I can’t stop looking at that pic you sent me. You look so good. 

22. I can’t get you out of my head.

23. I miss kissing you. 

24. Next time you come over, I wanna show you how comfy my bed is.

25. Next time we go out, you should come up and see my place. I’ll clean it up just for you 😉 

26. Come over tomorrow night. I have a little surprise for you…

27. After kissing me like that, I don’t know how much longer I can wait to see you again. 

28. I got in a little trouble at work today…I might need you to punish me tonight. 

29. I hope you have a great day, sexy. 

30. It’s too bad you’re not here right now. I’m a little drunk and a little horny. 

31. I need someone to help me build my bed…and then maybe test it out with me later. 

32. I need a massage after yesterday’s workout, how are your skills? 

33. When you look that cute, I’m not sure I can wait another week to see you. 

34. I kinda want the girl sitting next to me to see your selfie over my shoulder so she can see how hot the guy I’m texting is. 

35. If nobody else is at my apartment pool, do you think I’m allowed to tan topless?

36. Here’s my address for tonight. Looking forward to being picked up by my knight in shining armor. 

37. Is this photo too sexy to post on Instagram? [send photo]

38. Can you help me choose which photo to post on Instagram? [send photos]

39. Let’s go to that wine bar down the street. The booths are really dark and cozy and surprisingly private 😉

See Where Fun and Flirty Can Take You

Seductive messages can be a great way to keep things fun and exciting. These examples of subtle and seductive text messages for him can be adapted or personalized depending on your relationship with your partner.

If communication ends up moving in a more flirty direction and you and your partner are feeling comfortable, you can always try sexting to turn up the heat even more!

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