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25 of the Biggest Turn Ons for Girls

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You know that saying—it’s the little things that count? Well, that saying couldn’t be more true. Especially when it comes to the little things guys do that turns girls on. You might think it’s difficult to turn a woman on, but there are endless ways you can make us melt right into your arms with the smallest of gestures. To make your life easier, we’ve detailed some of these turn ons for girls below…

25 of the BIGGEST Turn Ons for Girls

1. When you pull us over to your side of the bed in the morning.
Because we’re still waking up, and there’s no better way to do that than in a handsome guy’s arms.

2. When you tell us you think we’re beautiful.
Beautiful holds so much more weight than pretty or gorgeous, especially when a guy drops it unexpectedly when you’re both just chilling out in your lounge wear.

3. When you compliment us on something non-physical.
We love it when you tell us how funny, kind, intelligent, or deep we are because it re-assures us that you’re not just with us for our body. (But don’t stop telling us we’re beautiful either.)

4. When you’re kind to total strangers.
When you get up for the elderly and pregnant ladies on the subway, or you stop to chat to a stranger on the street and pet his dog; our heart does a major backflip in our chest.

5. When you touch our knee under the table.
It doesn’t need to be anything more than your leg gently brushing ours, but it definitely heats things up a whole lot and gets us thinking.

6. When you remembered what we told you three weeks ago.
We’re always wondering if you’re really listening to us. So when you do something thoughtful like treating us to lunch at that restaurant we told you we loved, or you secretly read our favorite book and then share your thoughts on it, we’re blown away.

7. When you make us laugh.
Who doesn’t love laughing? Make our sides hurt with laughter and you’ll instantly be more attractive than you were five minutes ago. Bonus points if you’re able to laugh at yourself, too.

8. When you whisper in our ear.
It doesn’t matter so much what you’re saying to us, but having your face so close against ours and feeling your warm breath against our ear just kind of does it for us.

9. When you give us a massage after a long, stressful day.
Even if you just massage our neck or our feet, we won’t be able to stop thinking about you touching us in other places.

10. When you gently touch our hair.
When you tuck a strand of our hair back behind our ear it’s such an innocent act but gets us falling hard for you every time.

11. When you surprise us.
Something as small as showing up with our favorite candy bar, or picking a flower on your way over to our place and giving it to us, or something as extravagant as a romantic weekend away… it doesn’t really matter what the surprise is, because it all shows that you’re thinking about us.

12. When we wake up and you’re already making coffee.
You can stay over ALL the time if this is what mornings look like with you.

13. When you’re a total gentleman.
Most girls still like a bit of chivalry and to be treated like ladies. Open the door for us, hold our hand when we’re crossing the road, or pull the chair out for us at dinner and we’ll be putty in your hands.

14. When you’re quietly confident.
Women love confidence, but not the showing off kind. When you’re standing tall, but sitting back, and quietly taking your surroundings in… that’s sexy as hell. Of all the turn ons for girls, self-confidence is arguably the most important.

15. When you pulls our legs onto your lap when we’re watching TV.
Our feet feel like they’ve been transported to a spa, and your hands caressing our legs feels amazing.

16. When you touch us lightly.
Nothing is more of a turn off than a guy who doesn’t rush things… girls LOVE the build up. Touch us lightly, softly, and subtly all over our arms, legs, neck, and face and we’ll go from zero to ten in no time.

17. When you text us cute random messages.
It could be something as small as, “hope you’re having a great day,” or “I can’t wait to see you tonight.” It doesn’t really matter what you say, it’s the simple act of letting us know you’re thinking of us that gets us going.

18. When you cook us a candle-lit dinner.
Girls love food, even those of us who order salads when we’re on a date with you. Even if you can’t cook and the meal ends up being terrible, we’ll still think you’re awesome for going to all that effort. And we’ll want to say thank you.

19. When you don’t just kiss our lips.
That sweet spot behind our ears, the back of our neck, and our forehead are all sensitive areas for us ladies and huge turn ons. It mixes the usual make-out session up, and adds to the anticipation of your lips finally meeting ours.

20. When you carry our suitcase… and yours.
It’s not that we’re incapable of carrying our own bag, it’s just lovely when someone unexpectedly takes the weight off and makes our life a little easier. The image of a man quietly showing us his strength is super sexy.

21. When you lift us up… literally.
Maybe it’s because we’ve all seen Dirty Dancing one too many times, but we’re suckers for being lifted up, or spun around. The feeling of our bodies fitting next to each other feels sensual and spontaneous, and you’ll win our heart every time.

22. When you’re patient.
When you’re happy to wait however long it takes, whether it comes to getting physical or getting ready in the mornings, the happier we’ll be with you. You won’t believe the number of times other guys will have tried to rush us, so when you give us the time we need it’s refreshingly sweet and so noticed.

23. When you smell incredible.
One of the biggest turn ons for girls. Yes, we want our man to look good, but the right smell can light up our senses, and magnetically draw us closer and closer to you.

24. When you wear a tux or tailored suit.
There’s nothing more attractive than a guy who is suited and booted and looking like a straight up ten outta ten. As long as you’re wearing it with confidence, you’ll instantly look hotter and more powerful in our eyes.

25. When you come up behind us and hug us.
When we’re doing the dishes, putting our makeup on, or cooking dinner, and you put your arm around our waist from behind, and maybe also kisses our neck… This is GOLD.

Hopefully you’ll remember a few of these turn ons for girls next time you’re heading out on a date! Good luck out there.

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