Jessica Tholmer

Freelance Writer

Jess Tholmer has been writing on the internet for what feels like most of her life. After studying English Literature in school, she has leaned into her degree and is a full-time content writer, social media manager, and freelance contributor to websites like HelloGiggles.com. You can find her @tholmz on Twitter and Instagram!

A sigma male walking by himself down some railroad tracks looking pensive.

7 Traits of a Sigma Male (That Alpha, Beta, and Omegas Don’t Have)

Think about a lone wolf.

A guy in bed at night going through his Tinder top picks.

Tinder Top Picks: 8 Things You Should Know

If you want to use it right, here’s what you need to know.

Two couples hiking together using one of these double date ideas.

20 Fun, Low-Pressure Double Date Ideas

A few ways to have an amazing double date.

A guy who learned how to talk to woman, whispering in her ear at a coffee shop as she laughs.

How to Talk to Women You’re Interested In Without Screwing Up

A few tips to help you confidently talk to that woman you’re interested in without making a major misstep.

A girl who just realized I love him, smiling and laughing to herself shyly.

I Love Him: Now That You Can Admit It, What Comes Next?

Falling in love can be amazing and exciting. But it can also be pretty scary if you didn’t see it coming.

A woman who learned how to make him want you, about to kiss a buy outside in the sun.

How to Make Him Want You: 10 Ways to Really Turn Him On

Flirting is fun, but taking it to the next level is even more so.

A man who used one of these things I love about you to compliment his girlfriend, kissing her outside under a tree.

Things I Love About You: Compliments to Give Your Partner

There are a million things you love about your partner—it’s time you let them know!

A guy looking for a bumble hookup, on the app texting with someone.

Is Bumble for Hookups?

A lot of people have seen great success using Bumble, but is it only for serious relationships?

A girl who knows what going stag means, sitting alone at a wedding and cheersing the people around her.

What Going Stag Means and How to Own It

Going solo to an event can actually be a blessing in disguise.

A girl who was wondering if Tinder gold is worth it, on her phone looking at all the people who have already liked her and smiling.

Is Tinder Gold Worth It? A Look at the Premium Package

Ultimately, it will be up to your dating style and how often you like to interact with your apps.

A man who found cute ways to ask a girl out, handing a girl flowers before seeing if she'll go on a date with him.

7 Cute Ways to Ask a Girl Out: The Creative, Silly, & More

When you need to be more creative than a text message.

A man who used to have a lot of relationship insecurities kissing his girlfriend's head and smiling as they snuggle together in a blanket.

How to Let Go of Your Relationship Insecurity

It’s okay to feel your feelings, to have grace in your own healing process, and to love yourself throughout it all.

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